Release Past & Parents; new class

Do you carry pain, grudges or anger over past experiences with your parents? Have you experienced feeling blocked, not good enough and unable to create jobs, money or happiness in your life because of past programming from your parents?

I personally have had a long, painful journey in relation to my parents and encounter people in my classes and coaching all the time that have issues as well. I have received several requests to have a class on this, so here you go! Only $20 July 15th 70 minute class and Q & A

In this class we will explore releasing the issues, pain, hurts, and challenges… indeed the programming from your parents. Inner peace, mental clarity and ability to choose your thoughts, feelings and life are soon to be yours!

Everyone grows up being ‘programmed’ by their parents… it is not that most parents intend to do anything wrong. In fact they think they are doing their best! Most parents do not know how to manage their own emotions and mind. We are not taught this! And most parents do not know that they are actually programming their kids! All children are in “Theta” state until they are 7 years old. This makes it easy to learn, absorb and program beliefs and thought patterns into their minds. Unfortunately most parents have fears, negative attitudes, limiting beliefs and these are programmed into you!

So, now you are all grown up and want to create YOUR life the way YOU want, are you running into blocks? I know, so now, you can do something about it! Let’s get clear of the past issues, fears, and messed up attitudes with money that we got from parents. Let’s release the need for our parents to accept us as we are, agree with who we want to to be and apologize for hurtful things they did. Do you feel hurt by past experiences with your parents? Let it go, let them go, and free  yourself to live the life you truly desire to live.

The stunning fact is that we all have unconscious beliefs that we are often not even aware of. All our most powerful beliefs are taken on under age 7, and so you may be operating in criticism, resentment, guilt or some other unsupportive energy vibe and not realize it! Your beliefs can be limiting you even thought they once supported you. Your fear of pleasing your parents, wishing they treated you better, hoping they understand you and seeking their approval is limiting you!

Let me tell you about something powerful I have discovered for myself: I have been operating from the dominant energy of GUILT. Yes, and the reason is, I was raised by people who were operating from massive GUILT themselves. Only thing is, we both express it differently. The really interesting thing is when your parents operate (act) from a certain attitude, you, as the child, tend to operate from an opposing attitude to compensate and get the attention, love you desire. We all want love and attention, especially as a child. So you learn to act in a way that gets you that attention as a kid.

The fourth insight from the book The Celestine Prophecy explains one reason why we act in certain ways… to get energy from others.

• The Fourth Insight… The Struggle For Power:= To gain energy, we tend to manipulate or force others to give us attention and thus energy. When we successfully dominate others in this way, we feel more powerful, but they are left weakened and often fight back. Competition for scarce human energy is the cause of all conflict between people.

So there are several kinds of patterns that people play out. Our parents learned theirs from their parents, and so on. You tend to be the opposite as your parents, although not always. My sister was the same as my parents, and stronger! One act is ‘bully’. This is someone who bullies others their kids, by criticism, and such, and the child will tend to react by being in the victim mode. My parents are what are called “bullies”, they are critical, judgmental and act superior. Even though they do not really feel confident deep inside… people who act like that actually feel they are not good enough, and they have to keep working hard to be good enough. This includes criticizing those around them in order to feel and look better. When you have a bully or a even worse as a parent, you respond by being a ‘poor me’ and trying to get the love you want the only way you can… by being needy, hurt, pathetic, less, than, sick etc. This side of the equation is guilt. The reason kids learn to act this way is they learn it is the only way to get attention they desire form the bully parent.

So see how this plays out: my parents bully me, so to speak, they criticize, demand I change who I am, and continuously want me to be like them. I learn from this that I am not good enough, no matter what I do I cannot make them happy all the time, because they want me to be something I am not. I try for years on end, and it is never good enough. I am trying to be what others want me to be and since it is not natural things feel wrong, things do not line up well and even success does not last. Why? Because if I am not able to please my parents, the people who are most important to me in the world as a child, and the ones who are supposed to love, protect and care for me, no matter what, than what good am I? We all take on different versions of lack of self esteem due to these circumstances. Mine was at a core level I took on the belief that I was essentially bad, that whenever I acted naturally for me, as myself, it was wrong to them, and therefore I was bad (in my mind). This breeds guilt. So my inner landscape, for years on end, was to feel guilty all the time. It became normal. Even when I followed my heart and did things I really wanted to do, I felt guilty. (Now it is important to point out… I never did anything that was actually ‘wrong’ or “bad’. One thing they did not like about me was my spontaneity!)

When you feel guilty, you feel not good enough, you try to get the approval of your parents, you try to be what they want, live up to their expectations and seek their love by pleasing them. This, in the end, never, ever works. You can never please anyone else for long, and as many of you may have experienced, what you do to please your parents is never good enough. Or perhaps you please them one day and the next they are back to telling you that you are not good enough again, or you don’t deserve.  I was told repeatedly ‘you don;t deserve all we do for you”, “you don;t deserve this nice trip/place to live/etc”… that is programming. It went in so deep I spent most of my life, unaware that deep down I felt not good enough and that I did not deserve nice things.

Here is the worst part: by operating from guilt most of my life I attracted pain and punishment to me. That is what guilty energy attracts. Can you relate? Do you feel like you have tried everything to succeed and things happen that make you feel like you have been punished? Guilt!

This is one scenario to show you how the energy, patterns and emotions you feel are related to your parents and what you chose to believe about what they said and did. Perhaps you have more than just what you got as a child. Perhaps since then you have had a run in, a disagreement or been betrayed or hurt in some way by your parents. All of these relate to this same energy pattern you are acting out over and over. Come to the class, let’s find it, clear it and empower ourselves to start living our own lives!

Only $20 July 15th 70 minute class and Q & A 9PM Eastern/6PM Pacific Includes Replay download mp3

Solstice Special of the week: Abundance

The Special this week is a celebration of the Summer Solstice… the longest day of the year. We are enjoying (here in the US) the longest days of the year right now. An Abundance of light! How wonderful! So we celebrate ABUNDANCE!

I have created a new transformational essence that is the vibrational essence of Abundance, the law of increase and all harmonious vibrations to increasing the best in all things. This is also in honor of the class today, Monday June 22 “The Law of Increase and Wealth”. Increase is a fun and powerful vibration to tune to. When you open to the field of abundance and align with the vibe of increase spectacular things happen!

I am offering this energizing essence  “Abundance & Increase” at a special price as a Solstice gift for you! Use Coupon Code “Solstice” to receive $6.00 off and get the $31 essence for only $25.00! Celebrate and jump into abundance now! 

http://transformationalessences.com

Special price good till June 30th! Celebrate the light, especially the immense one inside you!

Key to Wealth

“A person’s right to life means his right to have the free and unrestricted use of all the things which may be necessary to his fullest mental, spiritual, and physical unfoldment; or, in other words, his right to be rich.” Wallace Wattles

Last week I had an amazing class on Receiving. Receiving Wealth… and anything else you are desiring to manifest in your life. Receiving is such an important key to living the life we desire, especially for letting in the Money we want so much!! You can still get the class on audio, it is 3 hours long and includes 3 wealth receiving statements, the 10 Secrets to Receiving Wealth and a beautiful guided visualization for receiving you can use over and over! This is huge value at only $25.97! Get it now before the price goes up, because this has such value, I want everyone to ‘receive’ what they are asking for!! Get it now at
http://tinyurl.com/bereceiver

I want you to have the Keys to your Wealth! My mission is to find the easiest, most fun and effective ways to create wealth, joy, love and a life I love. I share them with you in my coaching, group wealth coaching, audios, classes and books. Want a BIG key? Open up to receive, be worthy, happy, expectant!

Here is one Wealth Receving Statement from the Wealth Receiving class, use it and open your self to receive!

“I AM an excellent receiver. I now allow myself to receive.I deserve a rich and abundant life and I am receiving riches with great appreciation now”

Get the Receiving Wealth audio now, as in a week or so it will be available on CD and it will go UP in price!

Receive Wealth! Let in the wealth you have been waiting for!

Ever feel like you have done all the right things to create wealth and it still never shows up?? Receiving Wealth is more complex and yet more simple than we realize! This Wednesday June 3 I am holding a new Transform your life class about receiving the wealth you ask for.
This is such a key element to living the wealthy life you desire, that without it, all your other efforts are worthless.