Lighten up in a million tiny ways…

“Thank you so much Nan!!

I thoroughly enjoyed your class:-) You are very warm-hearted, down to earth, insightful, and wise.
I learned so much from your insight:-)

Thanks again! Tara”

“Hi Nan, I just listened to the Escaping Victim tele class I got for $5 sale.

It was great, Thank You so much….alot of things seem clearer now.  I am on my way to work on some old stuff.

I hope to get some of your other classes.

Again…..Thank You and I am going to listen to the class 2-3 more times. Kathy H”

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Is your past in the way of your wealth?

“.…that nobody needs your help. I know, I know…this is a difficult one. But it is true. Yet this does not mean no one wants your help, or that no one could use your help. It simply means the thought that another Aspect of Divinity is powerless without you is inaccurate. Do not do something, therefore, because you think someone else needs you. That only builds resentment. Do whatever you do as a means of deciding, declaring, creating, and experiencing who you are–and who you choose to be. Then you will never feel victimized, powerless, or without choice. Yes? You see how simple it all is? Get out of victimhood.” Neal Donald Walsh

As a coach I work with people on any issue at all that blocks their ability to be happy, focused and attract wealth.
This is often a past event that is standing in our way. We allow the past to have so much power over us, it drains us of the energy we need in the NOW moment. Why do we need that energy? To create the life we want, to attract wealth love, joy, health and experience life the way we want it. Let go of the past and the pain, the fear of loss. Let go of the need for approval, the desire for those who hurt you in the past to apologize and focus only on what you want now. The past is only good for accessing those feelings we have had of success, love, happiness, power, confidence, let the rest go.

If you want to create wealth and all the goodies that come with it, take time now to release the past and choose not to feel betrayal, pain, victimized, weak or in any way depleted by anyone or any event in your past. Here is part of my response to a client who is dealing with low energy and motivation due to past events with people who she feels betrayed her. Sound familiar to anyone? Yea, me too! Here is the key though, we can move through it, gain enormous strength, courage, ability and confidence when we move through these feelings into focusing again on creating our lives. She is purchasing the ‘Transform your life class’; “Escape the Victim Vibe”. It is a powerful 2 hour class for less than $20 that helps you transform feelings of powerlessness, not good enough and betrayal into ones one personal power and the ability to choose. I personally am using the “Escape the Victim Vibe” Transformational Essence, and have been for over a month. It is very powerful in helping me to release the feelings over my ex and the divorce. If you have any feelings like this, please see if this resonates with you, because I have seen miracles happen and I want you to feel powerful, confident and energetic again, able to create your life the way you want it!

I wanted to share this with you, I hope it helps!

“Thank you so much for expressing how you feel so openly! I appreciate it, and your kind words to me! I want you to know that even though, in this moment, you feel sad, down, betrayed and lacking energy, that the real you, the inner you that is still there, just beneath these feelings, is still that happy, “go-getter.” You can transform what happened into more strength and a more open and loving heart. It may benefit you to think like this : “I am not going to let anyone steal my life, my joy, my dreams, my happiness”, and realize that those ‘friends” who you feel betrayed you, are people who you were no longer aligned with, people move in and out of our lives and despite the circumstances, it is because we are ready for something new. They most likely were not going to support what you were moving into in your life, so let them go. Begin with thanking them in your mind for the good times and then forgive yourself and them for how things ended and then consistently move your focus back to what you want now. Remember everyone has challenges, and it is about what you do now that matters. Let the past go. It does not help you now, so focus on what you want tomorrow to be like and the next day and fill your mind and heart with those feelings of joy and love and happiness and wealth, purpose… re-access the feeling of being a go-getter, tune in to the real you and let it out, that is what matters, not what happened in the past.
Also don’t base your happiness or self worth on what ANYONE else thinks, says or does. Starting to shift that now will empower you beyond belief! You are more than competent, more than qualified and more than intelligent to do anything you desire. Your energy is a precious resource. You feel like you are barely getting by now, because all your energy is drained in feeding these past events and the pain you feel. Remember to watch where you are sending your energy and consciously pull it back into you. Stop keeping the past alive and depleting your energy to create the life you want right now. Use your energy for your new desires, dreams and accomplishments. Get yourself excited about what you want and focus on that. ”

Class #1: Escape the Victim Vibe: take back your power now and always 2 hour class available on mp3 download (you can put it on your Ipod, mp3 player, computer or burn to a disc) $19.97

or go to http://www.createyourownrealitynow.com/transform-now/

Thanks for being willing to transform your life, you uplift us all!
Namaste, Nan

Betrayal

“Dear Nan, I was 22 yrs old when I was devastated to find out that my father had betrayed me. My parents divorced when I was 14 & my father remarried someone who was jealous of me (and I much later found out was an alcoholic) and needless to say I never felt comfortable around her from the first moment I saw her. Ultimately, my father ended up divorcing her but not before OUR relationship had been damaged. He had forged my signature to allow himself to cash in on an estate check that was written out to me as one of the beneficiaries. It took me 13 yrs of estrangement to be able to try and start over. I had found out that the situation he was in at the time caused him to be between a rock and a hard place - thus his choice to betray me however was far from being the right thing to do about it. He has been in my life now for the past 5 yrs and has never remarried. I believe I have forgiven him, but how can I be really sure? Thank you for all of your time and help, it is so appreciated.”

Sound familiar? Most everyone has felt betrayed at some time in life. In a way it is inevitable. We place a lot of emotional energy on hoping or thinking that someone has our best interests at heart and will always honor them in just the way we feel they should. Well, when ever we put our expectations on the actions of another person, we are set up for a potential disappointment. No one can keep your best interests at the forefront of their mind and actions all the time. Yes, people do things that are not loving and kind, but there are about them, not us, even though it feels so deeply painful! Often people are hurt and confused themselves and they lash out at those closest to them.  I did a one and a half hour healing on Betrayal this last Thursday on my Global Healing call (get it at IntendGlobalhealing.com). That was one clients question for the call . I have also created a Transformational Essence to assist in releasing this. See Escape the Victim Vibe at http://transformationalessences.com/

The definition of betrayal in the dictionary is:

1.      to deliver or expose to an enemy by treachery or disloyalty: Benedict Arnold betrayed his country.
2.     to be unfaithful in guarding, maintaining, or fulfilling: to betray a trust.
3.     to disappoint the hopes or expectations of; be disloyal to: to betray one’s friends.
4.     to reveal or disclose in violation of confidence: to betray a secret.
5.     to reveal unconsciously (something one would preferably conceal): Her nervousness betrays her insecurity.
6.     to show or exhibit; reveal; disclose: an unfeeling remark that betrays his lack of concern.
7.     to deceive, misguide, or corrupt: a young lawyer betrayed by political ambitions into irreparable folly.
8.     to seduce and desert.

That last one really hits me. When I work with clients on money and wealth issues, we reveal their ‘money mask’. We make money into a person in our minds and seeing what they look and act like based on the limiting beliefs and negative emotions they hold around money. Mine ‘false money’ was an interesting, intelligent, handsome European man in a sexy sports car, very well dressed. He wooed me and seduced me and poured gifts on me. Then he would suddenly turn his back on me and disappear. He would ’seduce and desert’. Betrayed by money! Betrayal is not just reserved for people. We also feel betrayed by God, by the government, by luck, by all manner of circumstances. Feeling betrayed triggers memories and meanings and feelings that can knock us off our center and make us feel as if we are drowning. This sudden depletion of energy is quite intense. We literally experience shock. Shock reverberates throughout our system in a powerful way and stays in our system without some way of intentionally releasing it. When an event occurs that reminds us of the past betrayal, it comes to the surface quickly and our body reacts. It is important to get the shock out of your system… this is one thing the Transformational Essence does. It also has strength, courage, protection and more (see below). It can help you release and process your feelings of betrayal.

Although betrayal can knock us off center and be draining, it is not as thick and all powerful as it feels. Just below the surface, a very thin surface, is the freedom. When we experience  betrayal (which is in fact a form of grief), we want someone else to step in and take over, we feel defeated, depleted. Our minds fog up and are full of repetitive thoughts that play the pictures of pain over and over. Our focus is on how much we hurt. Our energy is so contracted that we feel unable to function.

We need to get unstuck. Allow the feelings to move thru us, dive deeper into them and release them till you get to some peace.  Get out of the repetitive and constant state of pain.

It is coming up because you are ready to release it! So allow the oldest layers of betrayal to come up, and you can get out of the feeling of drowning.

Solutions:

• take back your power
• Re-energize: follow your energy and reel it back in
• Release the need to depend on others, find your inner strength
• Transform your need for approval: let others do what they do and know it has nothing to do with you, it is there own stuff
• *Surround self with light or other visual that keeps your energy protected form the negative energy of others.
• Develop the quality of detachment
• Let go of the need for others to recognize and apologize for what they did. Do not let your happiness depend on someone elses actions, or change.
• Cultivate courage: to stand up for yourself, to be what and who you desire, to let go of people in your life that hurt and dono respect you…

Resources:

1. Escape the Victim Vibe 2 hour class on Audio only $19.97
   
2. Escape the Victim Vibe Essence only $25.00 till May 18th
   
3. Global Healing Call on Betrayal Free

What is our end result desire? Be free to choose, feel safe and secure, tuned in to our own strength and knowing our own capabilities. Accessing and knowing our own strength, courage, self love, ability to protect ourselves and total faith in ourselves.

New Transformational Essence! Escape the Victim Vibe: reaccess personal power

If you feel like a victim, feel betrayed, tend to blame others, complain and feel like you have no control over your life, this essence is for you! In my class (available on audio at createyourownrealitynow.com under Transform your Life Classes) we do processes to uproot and release the energies and emotions that create the feeling of being a victim, being betrayed and abandoned. This essence includes the essences of:

1. The Quality of Detachment: bathes in detachment so clarity and focus can be maintained
2. Command : Strengthen: strengthens you to feel capable, strong and ‘can do!”
3. Courage: The original vibration of courage activates your inner courage vibe
4. Protection: protects you on many levels to keep negative energies from affecting you
5. Shock: shock in your system from event or fear needs ot be released
6. Flower Essence: Broccoli: for maintaining the power balance when you perceive you are under seige or attck form outside. Stabilizes body/soul unit so you won’t detach, scatter and close down
7. Flower Essence: Dill: helps you reclaim power balance you have released to others. Victimization.

$31.00 Special till May 18th: $25.00