Release Past & Parents; new class

Do you carry pain, grudges or anger over past experiences with your parents? Have you experienced feeling blocked, not good enough and unable to create jobs, money or happiness in your life because of past programming from your parents?

I personally have had a long, painful journey in relation to my parents and encounter people in my classes and coaching all the time that have issues as well. I have received several requests to have a class on this, so here you go! Only $20 July 15th 70 minute class and Q & A

In this class we will explore releasing the issues, pain, hurts, and challenges… indeed the programming from your parents. Inner peace, mental clarity and ability to choose your thoughts, feelings and life are soon to be yours!

Everyone grows up being ‘programmed’ by their parents… it is not that most parents intend to do anything wrong. In fact they think they are doing their best! Most parents do not know how to manage their own emotions and mind. We are not taught this! And most parents do not know that they are actually programming their kids! All children are in “Theta” state until they are 7 years old. This makes it easy to learn, absorb and program beliefs and thought patterns into their minds. Unfortunately most parents have fears, negative attitudes, limiting beliefs and these are programmed into you!

So, now you are all grown up and want to create YOUR life the way YOU want, are you running into blocks? I know, so now, you can do something about it! Let’s get clear of the past issues, fears, and messed up attitudes with money that we got from parents. Let’s release the need for our parents to accept us as we are, agree with who we want to to be and apologize for hurtful things they did. Do you feel hurt by past experiences with your parents? Let it go, let them go, and free  yourself to live the life you truly desire to live.

The stunning fact is that we all have unconscious beliefs that we are often not even aware of. All our most powerful beliefs are taken on under age 7, and so you may be operating in criticism, resentment, guilt or some other unsupportive energy vibe and not realize it! Your beliefs can be limiting you even thought they once supported you. Your fear of pleasing your parents, wishing they treated you better, hoping they understand you and seeking their approval is limiting you!

Let me tell you about something powerful I have discovered for myself: I have been operating from the dominant energy of GUILT. Yes, and the reason is, I was raised by people who were operating from massive GUILT themselves. Only thing is, we both express it differently. The really interesting thing is when your parents operate (act) from a certain attitude, you, as the child, tend to operate from an opposing attitude to compensate and get the attention, love you desire. We all want love and attention, especially as a child. So you learn to act in a way that gets you that attention as a kid.

The fourth insight from the book The Celestine Prophecy explains one reason why we act in certain ways… to get energy from others.

• The Fourth Insight… The Struggle For Power:= To gain energy, we tend to manipulate or force others to give us attention and thus energy. When we successfully dominate others in this way, we feel more powerful, but they are left weakened and often fight back. Competition for scarce human energy is the cause of all conflict between people.

So there are several kinds of patterns that people play out. Our parents learned theirs from their parents, and so on. You tend to be the opposite as your parents, although not always. My sister was the same as my parents, and stronger! One act is ‘bully’. This is someone who bullies others their kids, by criticism, and such, and the child will tend to react by being in the victim mode. My parents are what are called “bullies”, they are critical, judgmental and act superior. Even though they do not really feel confident deep inside… people who act like that actually feel they are not good enough, and they have to keep working hard to be good enough. This includes criticizing those around them in order to feel and look better. When you have a bully or a even worse as a parent, you respond by being a ‘poor me’ and trying to get the love you want the only way you can… by being needy, hurt, pathetic, less, than, sick etc. This side of the equation is guilt. The reason kids learn to act this way is they learn it is the only way to get attention they desire form the bully parent.

So see how this plays out: my parents bully me, so to speak, they criticize, demand I change who I am, and continuously want me to be like them. I learn from this that I am not good enough, no matter what I do I cannot make them happy all the time, because they want me to be something I am not. I try for years on end, and it is never good enough. I am trying to be what others want me to be and since it is not natural things feel wrong, things do not line up well and even success does not last. Why? Because if I am not able to please my parents, the people who are most important to me in the world as a child, and the ones who are supposed to love, protect and care for me, no matter what, than what good am I? We all take on different versions of lack of self esteem due to these circumstances. Mine was at a core level I took on the belief that I was essentially bad, that whenever I acted naturally for me, as myself, it was wrong to them, and therefore I was bad (in my mind). This breeds guilt. So my inner landscape, for years on end, was to feel guilty all the time. It became normal. Even when I followed my heart and did things I really wanted to do, I felt guilty. (Now it is important to point out… I never did anything that was actually ‘wrong’ or “bad’. One thing they did not like about me was my spontaneity!)

When you feel guilty, you feel not good enough, you try to get the approval of your parents, you try to be what they want, live up to their expectations and seek their love by pleasing them. This, in the end, never, ever works. You can never please anyone else for long, and as many of you may have experienced, what you do to please your parents is never good enough. Or perhaps you please them one day and the next they are back to telling you that you are not good enough again, or you don’t deserve.  I was told repeatedly ‘you don;t deserve all we do for you”, “you don;t deserve this nice trip/place to live/etc”… that is programming. It went in so deep I spent most of my life, unaware that deep down I felt not good enough and that I did not deserve nice things.

Here is the worst part: by operating from guilt most of my life I attracted pain and punishment to me. That is what guilty energy attracts. Can you relate? Do you feel like you have tried everything to succeed and things happen that make you feel like you have been punished? Guilt!

This is one scenario to show you how the energy, patterns and emotions you feel are related to your parents and what you chose to believe about what they said and did. Perhaps you have more than just what you got as a child. Perhaps since then you have had a run in, a disagreement or been betrayed or hurt in some way by your parents. All of these relate to this same energy pattern you are acting out over and over. Come to the class, let’s find it, clear it and empower ourselves to start living our own lives!

Only $20 July 15th 70 minute class and Q & A 9PM Eastern/6PM Pacific Includes Replay download mp3

Want change? Take this quiz now

Answer these questions and reveal the fog that keeps you from making change happen! Then see the E-Z solution…

• Do you dislike your current circumstances? (Income, love life, living situation, health?)
• Do you feel there is someone in your life that is limiting you and what you are capable of?
• Do you feel like all your energy and time goes to taking care of everyone else’s needs and you never get to yours?
• Do you feel like you are not good enough to have the job, relationship or body you desire?
• Do you spend time most days fretting over a past incident and how you wished it had gone differently?
• Do you feel anger towards someone in your life, past or present?
• Do you think you were treated unfairly at work, by your spouse, in a divorce or other family matter?
• Do you want your mom, dad or spouse to treat you better?
• Do you wish someone would apologize to you for a hurtful, cruel or insensitive event?
• Do you feel like others get what they want, but you never do?
• Do you feel like you always miss out or never win anything?
• Do you say things like “well that’s typical of my life” when things don’t work out?
• Do you feel afraid to ask for what you want because someone may not like you, or you may upset someone?
• Do you ask yourself “why me”?
• Do you want to have more time to yourself and your dreams but feel you have obligations to others that have to come first and can’t be changed?
• Do you have big dreams but feel like you did not have the right education, upbringing or money to make it happen?
• Do you regret staying in a relationship, at a job or in a certain living situation so long and feel like you wasted your time?
• Do you want more and feel like no matter how hard you work at it, nothing changes?
• Do you feel weak, dis empowered and unable to focus, concentrate and accomplish the things you want to do?
• Do you seek attention by being sick, upset or unable? Did your parents only give you the attention you desired when you were really suffering?
• Do you feel wrongly accused, misunderstood or like a failure because someone else does not approve of you?
• Do you expect to fail?
• Are you afraid to commit to do something because you feel you will not follow through?
• Do you feel apathetic and uninspired because you do not feel anything you do will make a difference?
• Are you waiting for someone to ask you, notice you or invite you?
• Are you wishing you were treated with more respect and received more recognition?
• Do you blame someone for what you have or don’t have right now?
• Do you feel anything in your life, your health, cashflow, body, past…anything limits you and keeps you from having, doing and being what you truly want?

How many yes’s?

OK…well if you answered ‘yes’ to even ONE of those questions, you will benefit from my 90 minute class on Thursday April 9th…and best of all , it is only $19.97! Imagine transforming all that into personal power, energy,clarity, inner peace, wealth and happiness! Yes, any of these feelings and much more is caused by victim energy or what I call the ‘Victim Vibe’. You do not have to be immersed in a ‘poor me’ attitude or totally unsuccessful in life to still have some victim vibe running through your thoughts, beliefs and system.

My new Transform your life Class series kicks on April 9th with “Escape the Victim Vibe”. You will find out how pervasive this vibration is in our thoughts, beliefs, our bodies and our bank accounts….even in our government and justice system. It is reinforced in our media, by lawyers, by friends and family. It is all around us, and it is devastating to our ability to create and enjoy the life of our dreams.

There are rich people who still feel wronged and angry at a past event or persons, therefore do not have inner peace or true joy. There are thin people who still have body issues and feel not good enough. There are happy people who still have not found love or wealth.  You do not have to feel like a victim in every area of your life in order to be affected by the victim vibe. But I can promise you that whatever is not working in your life, is definitely affected by this energy of being a victim and not claiming our power and responsibility.

When we let anything at all make us feel like someone or something outside ourselves is preventing us from having what we want, we still have the victim vibe flowing thru us. We all have the victim vibe, it is an energy we took on as children and have never let go of. Even people who feel very confident and successful on some areas have other areas that do not work and they feel less than in.

We are 100% responsible for our lives. For how we feel, what we see and attract and if we let ourselves receive and enjoy what is being given to us. Are you ready to change that and claim your power to create your life the way you want? Read more here

Join the transform your Life: Escape the Victim Vibe class now! You get the audio too! Only $19.97!