LISTEN! This one thing could change everything!
July 21, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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have something I want to share with you which is near and dear to my heart, the relationship about success, wealth and money, and a chance to get breakthroughs… listen to the preview call here or go to the link below and get the download. You will enjoy the processes we lead you through!
To sign up for the class or read more go here:
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No matter what the economy is doing, there are some entrepreneurs who are growing their business, always getting referrals and resonate with success. Then there are those who are barely making ends meet, it is always a struggle and not really sure whether they will be making paying the bills at the end of the month.
So why does one entrepreneur struggle and another grow?
From the thousands of clients I have worked with over the years, I have seen one thing over and over again which separates the two. In fact, this one thing differentiates the serious business owner set for success compared to the average entrepreneur who struggles to get by.
Question: which one do you want to be?
The successful entrepreneurs have continued with personal growth.
They have worked on their mindset, transforming beliefs about deserving, confidence and success. Their inner game is aligned with their goals.
When your values, beliefs and actions are aligned with your purpose then opportunities begin to appear. If anything is holding you back and is out of alignment, then having the success you say you want will be very difficult. Your subtle subconscious energies makes progress very difficult.
We want you to let go of struggle, procrastination, fear , doubt
and embrace the Wealthy You! Attract clients, have fun and enjoy your wealth!
I have created the Wealthy You! Breakthroughs in Money series to change all that. Each call of the series includes strategies, tips and energy clearings. Your energy and your goals need to be aligned for success to occur.
You WILL get breakthroughs and shift your inner perspective, making it possible to align with business success, wealth, and the ideal client.
The powerful preview call is TONIGHT, Wednesday 7/21 @6pm PST / 9pm EST.
Loren Fogelman and I will be guiding you through actual processes to attract clients, and get breakthroughs. We will sharing what we know about the wealth mindset, tips for success and
energy clearings on the call.
Because space is limited, please reserve your spot immediately.
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You will get the recording if you sign up, so register even if you cannot make it live!
We will be making a very special offer on the call for those that are taking a “no excuses” approach and showing up live.
See you tonight for a breakthrough in your business, finances and mindset!
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Love, Nan
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Wealthy You! Creating Breakthoughs in Money & Client Attraction
July 19, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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Wealthy You! Creating Breakthoughs in Money & Client Attraction
Calling all Coaches, Solo-prenerus, Business builders, independent thinkers, Creators, healers, entrepreneurs and anyone who wants to share their message with the world!
Tranform fear, doubt, procrastination and attract clients and success now!
This week I want to share some powerful, truly transformative processes with you and introduce you to an opportunity to grow your income, client base and business.
Are you ready to take your income to the next level? Want to get out of the negative news, the doom and gloom and Create real breakthroughs?
Turning breakdowns (like job or money loss, divorce, foreclosure, bankruptcy or even just lack of joy and abundance) into breakthroughs is a key to creating the life and money you want. We all have breakdowns, in fact, right now the whole economy and much of the world is going through a breakdown. This is GOOD NEWS! Yes, you heard me, it is a good thing.
Let me share why…. the way we are living, the way the economy and business were functioning is not optimal! How many people do you know that are HAPPY, DOING WHAT THEY LOVE, MAKING AS MUCH MONEY AS THEY DESIRE? Not many I bet… and many people feel lost, unsure of a direction, lacking enthusiasm for their job, business or life.
So we have all been asking on an internal passionate level, for something better… and now is the time for that transition! The world has changed and will continue to change rapidly. Business is changing and will never go back to the way things used to be. If you are waiting for the world to go back to how it was… WAKE UP! It is not going to… it is going to keep changing and moving forward.
What is the GOOD NEWS? That there is more opportunity right now than ever before. If you do not feel this way, then now is the time to switch! Tapping in to the fact that the way we do business, connect, interact, create and attract money and clients is vital. It starts by switching from a ‘oh no, things are so bad and are getting worse” perspective to a “wow, what a wonderful time to be creating a life I love and attracting more than enough money for all I desire to do”.
Now is the time to start or grow a business or hooking up with a company on the move… think about it.. aren’t there a lot of people who need help, have problems and challenges to solve? This is what being a coach, healer, entrepreneur or creator is all about! There is so much room to think of new, creative and effective ways to help people in this time of massive transition!
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Please read more about the powerful processes and guide that are waiting for you in the Wealthy You! Creating Breakthroughs in Money course. It all starts with a powerful preview call this Wednesday… FREE of course. We will take you through processes to attract clients and bust through blocks. We will show you how transforming any breakdown into a breakthrough will open a whole new door to a life of wealth, worthiness and happiness.
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Prosperity on Purpose: the art of receiving money
June 28, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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My special guest is Shanda Sumpter from Heart Core Women’s online Community and The Art
Of Receiving Money. This is an exciting and tranformative new place for to get breakthroughs, get access to courses from expert trainers, like Bob Proctor, Loral Langemeier and me Nan Akasha!
“Treat your goal as if it already is, because it is” Shanda Sumpter
Join me as Shanda shares her journey from $500 to her name to massive success.
Shanda says “we do not step fully into our passion without facing our fears”
“Understand the flow of money, you’ll know that what goes out with intention and heart will come back to you 10 fold.”
About Shanda: “I created a niche in corporate American by becoming an idea woman. The most powerful gift you have right now is your ideas. Your house, that wall, that table, that road outside, everything started as an idea, and it got created out of that idea. I became an idea woman, and I went from being a hostess, to accepting a General Manager position in a nightclub in Las Vegas. I took that nightclub to E! Entertainment, Discovery Channel and held a lot of celebrity parties. I literally hit the mark that the owner of that company wanted me to hit in 30 days. I started asking for a series of raises…”
Tune in and hear more!
Get her book Prosperity on Purpose free here http://www.enrichedwomen.com/
“If you are going to expand into anything other then what you are today, you must OPEN up to another idea outside of your current circumstances.”
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Shanda Sumpter is a former successful Real Estate VP Investor Relations
for Coldwell Banker Premier Realty, master hypnotherapist, entrepreneur
and fortune 300 leadership coach who took her love of mentoring and skills
at success to now empower countless lives around the planet. Shanda has
a unique perspective to empower people by helping them step into their
clarity with laser sharp focus.
Shanda is the host of HeartCore Radio with her partner Allyson Spellman.
When they are not hosting their own show they are often found on
HayHouse Radio on the show Soul of Attraction with James Twyman.
Her program “HeartCore BootCamp” empowering women to stop settling,
is helping thousands of women to reclaim their hearts, stand in their self-
worth and create authentic lives of fun, fabulousness and fulfillment.
Get ready to be amazed at the extraordinary life you can create
as we welcome the brilliance and heart of Shanda Sumpter
10 ways to Transform Your Fear & 3 Processes
March 27, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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- What is fear?
- Types of Fear
- Clarity
- Inviting Fear
- Distraction and Changing Focus
- How do you react to fear?
- Framework
- Bright Spots
- Letting Go
- 10 WAYS TO TRANSFORM FEAR
- 3 Processes
Combination of 4 ways (12 min)
Crash (
Courageous Your: Self Image makeover (13.44 min) - WHAT TO DO NEXT
- WHAT FEAR DOES TO YOU
- What could you/would you do without letting fear stop you?
Please let me know if you have any questions or I can help in any way! I hope you will get this class and allow yourself the chance to learn about fear and how to handle it.
Lots of love, Nan
I had no idea this was caused by fear!
March 25, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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lately and some unexpected changes that occurred.- “If I take time for myself, I am being selfish, and then ‘they; won;t love me and will take away their love” = FEAR OF LOSS.
- “If I set schedules, and appointments, I may not be ready, I may not be done, caught up and I would be wasting time I need to spend on working hard and trying to be good enough” = FEAR of FAILURE.
- “If I pin myself down to times and meet people, what if I am not good enough and they don’t like me/hire me/approve of me” = FEAR of Approval/disappointment/rejection.
- If I take enough time to not have to rush, I am giving myself an undeserved luxury” FEAR OF BEing Greedy, and selfish. (BTW there is no such thing, these are just illusions).
- “If I take more time to do the things I need to do I am somehow inefficient and not good enough” FEAR of being Irresponsible, spontaneous….
What if you knew how to get past FEAR and Feel FREE!?
March 22, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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What would your life be like if you could get past FEAR and really LIVE your life from joy, wealth and confidence? 
Imagine how you would feel, think, act and interact if you knew how to transform your FEAR!
- Would you ASK for more money, more income, more sales, a raise, a date…..?
- Would you BE Happier because you expressed yourself fully?
- Would you have more friends, associates, clients, a mentor and other fun, supportive relationships?
- Would you feel Inner PEACE, joy and fulfillment because you lived your life your way and let go of FEAR, doubt…?
Your life, wealth, health, happiness… is determined by your mindset, energy management and your self image. You cannot Change or TRANSFORM any of these if you are caught up in fear. Fear keeps you exactly where you are right now….
Are you experiencing what you truly want in all areas of life right now?
- What do you really want to be DOING right now, that FEAR keeps you from taking action?
- What do you really want to HAVE right now, that FEAR keeps you from asking, allowing or claiming?
- What do you really want to BE right now, that you know FEAR has kept you from believing, deserving or expressing?
- Are you aware of how FEAR, although based on false thoughts, embedded emotions and old meanings, is keeping you from living the life you deeply desire?
So I want to share a short story with you, something that I cleared recently and what I discovered FEAR was doing in my life, body, mind and emotions. Fear affects us all, it affects us even when we are used to feeling it,. It affects us in many ways we cannot see. In fact, these ‘invisible’ ways are the really powerful ones… because we act from the fear, not from our true selves.
I have known for a very long time that I have certain challenges in this life and that they were carefully designed and chosen, by me, to grow past my current barriers. Even though I knew this, and have traveled the world for 23 years studying healing, philosophy, hypnosis, business, personal development, I still had a paralyzing fear within me. Even though I have helped 1000’s worldwide with their own fears, I was not immune to my own. Even though I knew what and who they were around, I still had this powerful fear based ‘thing’ that was affecting all I do…
Sound familiar? Yes, often we even know what we are dealing with, and still have little success removing it. Well, a month or so ago, I traded healing with a local healer. I felt his presence and knew I had found someone who I resonated with and who could take me to a place I had not been able to go myself. (We all need outside help, let others help you, even if you are a healer yourself!).
As is often the case in healings, I had no set agenda and I placed my trust in the healer and the Universe. He soon tuned in and asked me “what are you afraid of letting out? What are you hiding?” I immediately sensed a surge in my energy and began to cry… there could be multiple answers to this question, but I knew exactly what they were referencing. I answered “the real me”… from there we went through all kinds of energy shifts.
I already knew that I had hid the ‘real’ me long ago, when I was a tiny child. The ‘real’ me means fully trusting and accepting that I can express myself authentically and safely. I had ‘learned’ as a child that it was not ’safe’ to be me, I could not trust others to accept me as I was. Many different interactions had led me to decide that whenever I was fully present and exuberant, joyful, happy, ME, that others (mainly my parents) were not happy. I never knew why… but I was constantly being told things like “You are too happy… too loud… too spontaneous… too sensitive… pushy… friendly… selfish… too outgoing… trusting…” on and on. My parents would do what I call “remove their love”… if I did not fit in to what they thought was appropriate. How I chose to interpret this had a profound impact on me, including lack of self esteem and worth, fear of rejection, seeking approval outside myself and a general fear of people. Perhaps you can relate to this?
So what I did as a child (from age 3) was I put my real self in a cupboard, a dark cupboard within me, and I locked it. I kept my true self expression very suppressed, I tried to fit in and win approval, and I worked very hard at it most of my life. All I knew was I was I had created beliefs that told me I was not ‘right’ when I acted purely from within me, and I had to be careful because people would leave me if I acted like the real me. I was also very sensitive and was hurt easily by the perceived criticism. When I was treated with no understanding or respect and I would say something or be hurt, I was told “you are too sensitive”. If I was happy and really enjoying what I was doing I was told I was “too loud or ‘in my own fantasy world”. If I was asking a friend to come out to play and I was working on finding a solution so we could coordinate our schedules, I was told I was ‘too pushy or aggressive”. When I was excited to meet new people I was told I was “too trusting and friendly”. When I was beaming with joy and love and asking for hugs, I was told I was “too selfish and too happy”. (I still find it bizarre that so many people actually think you can be too happy!)
So, I chose to protect myself and fit in, quiet down, keep my exuberance in check (as much as I could… I spent most of first grade in the hall because I talked too much and I knew the Janitor so well I had my mom make him a birthday cake. He was kind, he would bring me a chair to sit on and sometimes even sit with me!) and try to learn what it was that was so offensive about being me. (Don’t get me wrong, I was not totally repressed and had a lot of fun in my life. Just never been fully me, all the way… think about it, have you?).
So in the healing, the healer, handed me a key, and said ‘unlock the door” (this is etheric, and energetic, not literal). To my astonishment, I saw a low slanted cupboard door with a small wooden handle. Like the kind that are under the stairs, not taller than a few feet. I opened it with the ‘key’ and it was pitch dark within. I moved in further and saw a small child sitting curled up in the corner, it was me. I took the child’s hand and led her out into the light. The action sounds simple, but within me massive emotions were churning. I was me, now and I was me, the child who was scared to come out, be seen, because I had chosed to believe that being me was wrong, dangerous and people could not be trusted.
All I could do was hold this child tightly to me, pouring love into her. Whispering in her ear over and over “I Love you, you are perfect, you are wonderful, it;s safe now, you can come out, I apologize”". I knew I had repressed this side of me and made judgements about myself. I knew I had created beliefs that were self destructive based on the perception that I could not be myself and be loved. I knew there were areas of my life I was not fully experiencing because I was not fully expressed. I had been afraid of people and all kinds of other things and it only let me go so far in my relationships, my business, my creativity. The fear… of loss, of rejection, of approval, of not being good enough… fear was keeping my from moving forward and creating my life the way I wanted it.
The rest of the healing was profound and let me simply say, I have let myself out of the dark and into the light. I am allowing myself daily to ease into feeling safe and trusting that I can be myself, fully expressed and not have to fear losing love, support and approval. It is a process too, because I have had this habit of hiding my full energy expression for so long. Recently I was at a workshop and we were sharing ourselves in small groups. I found myself moving my body back when I got excited about what I do and my passions in life. One man commented on it. I said, “I know, I am just now getting used to sharing my full energy. I held it back for so many years, that I still have the habit of not wanting to overwhlem you”. He commented to let it all out, he was looking forward to it! What a wonderful confirmation.
So, what do I feel the most when I transform my fear? FREEDOM! Freedom to be me, be happy, and live fully! Want that too? Join me!
So… have you locked a part of you away that you feel is not good enough, inappropriate? Do you feel fear that you will be rejected, ignored, ridiculed or left if you fully express yourself? Can you see how doing this keeps us from fully experiencing life. It keeps us from finding our full potential, reaching our pinnacle of success, attracting abundant wealth and health. We cannot live fully, succeed and express fully, if we are afraid of what others think, afraid of losing something l(ike money, love or friends), or afraid of trustng others.
Want to live fully? Express the real you? Enjoy living your passion and receiving abundance for it? Want to feel safe, and at peace in any situation because you trust yourself and see fear for what it is, communication that you decide what it means?
I know I do! So I have designed this class to take you past the emotion of fear into your real self and to tap into the strength, vision and focus you have within you that will lead you to the rich, fun, joyful life you know you deserve! JOIN ME NOW!
f you want to powerfully remove fear from your body, mind and energy field, join me, and then think about joining the next ‘Transform Your Life” class on March 25th “Transform your Fear Now”.

Here’s some more I blogged about fear already, if you haven’t read it yet.
What keeps us from renewing ourselves? FEAR! What keeps us from believing we can accomplish a new and exciting project or goal? FEAR! What keeps us form knowing we are Divine, supported and can succeed at anything? FEAR!
Fear needs to be assessed. As it comes up we need to isolate it, and talk to it, before it reaches the point where it consumes us, brings up emotions and irrational reactions. Then we can pinpoint:
- Why am I feeling this Fear?
- Where is it coming from?
- Where do I feel it in my body?
- What triggered it?
- What do I prefer to feel?
Usually we discover that the Fear is based on past experiences or unconscious beliefs installed when you were a child. It is not rational and often makes no sense either. Logic can help reduce some fears. Simple logic about how it is highly unlikely that the feared outcome or reaction will ever even happen. In fact some ridiculously high percentage of the time, our fears NEVER materialize!
Sometimes feeling the fear and boldly doing it anyway is incredibly powerful and beneficial. Only you know that. However, developing the courage and skill to do this is seriously transformative. Once you decide that you are going to commit to your success, to getting a better job, relationship or attract more clients… whatever you want to create or attract, you harness the power, knowledge and support to make it real for you! Your commitment and your internal passion that you are going to have, do or BE what you truly want, is all you need to clear the fear and move forward.
Fear and most all of our beliefs were formed when we were under 8 years old. If we think of how fear felt as a kid, it either
- Fear did not exist
- Fear did not stop us
- Fear overwhelmed us from lack of understanding
A child is in the moment, another way to way lay fear, and more focused on what they want, then on what could happen or might happen. A child feels worthy and trusts that he can have what he wants. A child sees the end result they want, not the blocks in the way. What if we began to do the same? Fear would shrivel and we can then take our adult experience and keep ourselves safe while moving forward powerfully toward our goals!
Fear is going to be a part of life. I have yet to find anyone who does not experience some of it. So it comes down to how are you going to handle it. A new perspective gives you a whole new way of seeing, feeling and handling fear. That is freedom. That is a lease on life that can transform how you experience life! Ready? Let’s bust the fear, empower ourselves to feel confident, worthy and competent. Tune in to the reason you are here, your passion and your Divine nature, and fear fades!
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March 17, 2010 by Nan Akasha
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Something leaving? Feeling loss? Let go and prosper!
July 9, 2009 by Nan Akasha
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“Let it go. Release it. If it was not supposed to be removing itself from you now, it would not be doing so. It will never return to you in this exact form, and it is not intended to. If it returns at all, it will be in a higher form. That is the purpose of its leaving. All of life only improves itself. It can’t do anything else. This is called evolution. Trust it. And now, smile. Tomorrow is coming! “ Neal Donald Walsh
Do you feel like you are experiencing loss? Loss of money, loss of clients, loss of opportunity, loss in the stock market? Where is your focus? Are you staying focused on what is coming to you, that wish you desire? Or are you focusing on lock and creating worry, fear and doubt within you? You have a choice… you can choose how you feel and what you think, and best of all, you get to choose what you think anything means! It is your choice. When you use your choice towards your greater good, you prosper!
So, would you rather feel scared, anxious and down or happy anticipating and expectant? If something did not work out the way you want, if you feel like you do not have enough, or what you do not have what you really want, then now is the time to start giving your energy to what you do want, not what you do not have. If something is moving out of your life; a person, a relationship, a job, a house… it is because you no longer align with it. It is not a match to who you are anymore, so let go. Trust there is a purpose and that what you are moving towards is better than you can imagine! Believe the Universe is working for you and is leading you to your greater good. Let go and be grateful for what you had, and look with joy and anticipation towards what is coming. Begin to Create your reality in cooperation with the Universe.
Today go through the day with these ideas firmly in mind:
- How do I feel?
- Do my feelings uplift and inspire me?
- What am I thinking about?
- Does it uplift and inspire me?
- Who am I spending time with?
- Do they uplift and inspire me?
Then switch. Choose what you PREFER to feel, think and BE. Replace the unsupportive energies with ones that uplift and inspire you! YES, IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE! Suspend your disbelief and choose to believe this will:
- Attract more joy, love and inner peace
- Attract more ideas, creativity and inspiration
- Attract more interesting, loving, inspiring people
Because it does! Yep, so choose now and then expect the joy, fun, opportunities, inspiration, wealth and love! Remember the Free Manifesting Wealth Call July 16th!
Claim your life now
May 1, 2009 by Nan Akasha
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“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.” –Alan Cohen
Everyone wants change, yet is afraid of it. Everyone wants something better, different, and most people never actually change. Isn’t the lack of change frustrating? Isn’t the struggle tiring? Isn’t the desire for security and the fear of failure just sucking your energy?
I know the feeling. I love change myself. It isn’t always easy or pleasant, yet I find feeling stuck to be worse, much worse. So I dive into things and wham!! Massive breakdowns, breakthroughs and eventually… goodies! Yes, I feel fear and yes, some changes have been so painful and shocking that it has taken a good amount of time an effort to find myself again. It is always worth it though, always.
I have had so many experiences in my life that required enormous courage and I felt fear, believe me, and I did it anyway. Facing things that you know you HAVE to do, because your inner voice is very clear and you can feel with all your beingness that this is what you are meant to do, is scary and yet empowering. I have had to fire employees, yuck, and yet each time it became easier to have compassion for them and be true to myself. I asked my husband of 25 years for a separation and eventually a divorce, and I was so scared of hurting and upsetting him. I am so very glad I finally did it, it freed me. It was horrendously painful and the 3 years that it took to finalize were the most devastating I had experienced other than my daughter dying. Worth it. I even ended up ‘divorcing’ my parents, as they turned their back on me emotionally and sided with my ex.
Why was I willing to do that and go through the disapproval, the pain, the guilt and the financial hardship? My inner being needed to be free. It became more important for me to live the life I know I was meant to live, to express myself, help others and enjoy every moment. It was not possible within that situation. I held on to the familiar way too long! It was oddly easier to stay, to suffer in silence and think positively, put my energy into my business and my kids and ignore the fact I felt suffocated, unsupported, trapped and weighed down. What a waste of time and energy! Now, I look back and wish I had done it earlier, way earlier. It was not worth those years of my life gone, lived in partial joy and a lot of self blame. Not for the security of a house and husband with a good paycheck, not for the ‘appearance’ of doing the right thing (marriage, children, work hard, blah blah…).
Why didn’t I get the courage to get out sooner? I believed that it would get better again. I thought I could fix it. I was strong and had a lot of stamina and pushed myself to be everything for everyone. I was determined to be the best, nicest and most successful and please all these other people. I thought if I just made enough money my husband would be happy and be less stressed and full of fear all the time. I hoped he would start to treat me kindly again once we got past whatever the current busy-ness was. I thought if I tried harder, did more and never spoke up about my feelings he would care about me, value me and thank me. Fat chance! Why? Because it was all his fault? No, that thinking is victim vibe thinking and is a trap you may never get out of. Yes, I was hurt and angry with him and I did not want to live with him anymore. I did want him to be happy though, and I do not blame him, I know I am responsible.
So why was it ‘fat chance’ anything was going to change? Because we cannot change other people. Becasue I was and am responsible for staying, for believing, for choosing to trust him and others, for waiting for them to change. I am the one that chose to ignore it, to trust people and to stay around people who gave me no respect. I am the one who did not put myself first. No one else can do that but me. It was never going to change because all my focus was on trying to please others, trying to fit into what others thought I should do or be. Hoping things would just get better or thinking if I just did the right things, my husband and parents and everyone else would be pleased, happy and approve of me. I would get love and then all would be good. NOT.
I want to invite you to truly look at your life, your current emotional state. How do you feel about things? Money, love, house, job, health, your body, business, your state of mind, inner peace. Is there some area or many areas you have wanted, wished for and even worked towards change and not achieved it? Is there something you need to have shift RIGHT NOW in order to have inner peace and for you to move forward in joy? I know many people are feeling a money crunch right now, for starters. Well, really go deep, and think about it. Movement is life, stuckness is death. Living death.
I can promise you it feels soooo much better to summon the courage and let go of the past, and clutter and event the familiar, and commit to change. Your life is lived in this now moment, and unless you grab it and fill it up fully with what YOU want, then what is the point? The point is not to follow a bunch of rules, be the nicest person, avoid conflict, try to please everyone else, keep working hard so one day you might be happy and enjoy yourself… Stop right now!!
Why? Doing these and so many more things that do not feed our soul is such an incredible waste~ of time, energy, life, joy, love… Living your own life the way you intended does require courage. It does requires transforming your mindset, choosing what you want and not what others want for you. It requires really being honest with yourself and others and believing, loving and expressing yourself. It is ‘work’… and yet, it can be so fun and the end result is sooo worth it!
Even if it scares you to let go of your perception of security (sorry, there is no real security, it is just an illusion), the familiar people, things, places and work, you must do it. You must do it to claim your life, your power and your joy. Your success, in all areas of life even love, will come only when you are willing to let go and choose from within. Choose from within you, what your inner being, your authentic self desires. As you do this, you move into a whole new vibration, literally. You attract a whole new life… people, situations, moods, events, opportunities and more. It is like living in a different world when you decide to have the courage to live your life on your terms and no one elses! Everything feels possible, even probable and you have an inner trust and peace that pervades your whole life. What a difference!
Can you relate? Are you in a relationship, job, body or financial situation that is so uncomfortable you can barely stand it anymore, yet you stay? If so, then I want to be here for you. I have been through it and I want to help. I am available for coaching and the group coaching class is going to “Make if Happen” this month, really see results! I have free calls, many audios and classes. What can I do to help you find the courage, let go of the familiar and move into a life of adventure, excitement, movement, riches, joy and true inner expression that brings the ultimate…bliss!? I give all I have to give and am always searching for what you want and need to make the transformation to your ultimate life. Please let me know how I can help! Comment here or email me nan@createyourownrealitynow.com I am always pleased to present a free class for your clients, do speaking engagements and partner with like minded people. Let me know how, together, we can co create a life of adventure, wealth and fun!
Some more resources:
Tune in to your inner voice and amplify your intuition for greater clarity and inner peace! IntuitionAccelerator.com
Transform your relationship with money for good! Total Wealth Transformation Program Masteryourmoneymind.com
Tune in tho the energy and essence of money: BetheSpiritofMoney.com
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Nan has these huge spiritual wings of light.she asks the most deep, interesting questions. - Joe Vitale, star of "The Secret" and author of "The Attractor Factor"
Nan has the heart of a lion, if I was lost the sea, I would want her with me. People want to hear what she has to say... - Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len, Co-Author of Zero Limits and Ho'oponopono Specialist
Nan, you have a way of condensing law of attraction and metaphysical concepts into an easy to understand and fun way, I thoroughly recommend anything you do! I was just listening to your interview, my o my you are goooood!I love the way you put it over, you know your stuff, we must have you on again! -Neil Long www.consciouscreationshow.com
Nan is such a natural and practical communicator. She embodies not only the Spirit of Money but is an energetic generator of joy, freedom and abundance. As a person, Nan is passionately living an expansive life of inspired action, where she naturally and practically demonstrates all the fun and happiness that is our earthly heritage. Nan is a being of great light and vivacity, who epitomizes the notion of self - determination and in aligning with her true nature inspires all of us to reach our full potential and be unlimited potentiality itself. - Natasha Hewitt form Manchester England



