Lack motivation? Setbacks? What to do…

June 29, 2009 by Nan  
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I coach people who want to change their life, their income, their happiness and their wealth vibe. Whenever we decide to make major changes in our life we encounter resistance. That is just the way it is. We have ingrained habits, automatic reactions, thoughts and feelings and deeply grooved neural pathways that all support what we now desire to change. It does not just up and fly out the door the second you decide to change. I wish it did, believe me! The best way to think of it, so you do not get frustrated and lose momentum and passion, is to simply see it as if you were learning a whole new subject, music insrtrument, job skill or sport. It is just the same, you are installing new ideas, thoughts, feelings, skills and ways of BEing. If you look at it this way, you can go into it knowing it will take a little time, maybe not long, but at least a little and effort, focus or practice. You may get frustrated, but since your intent is to learn it, then you simply get up and try again, over and over till you get it down.

Here is part of an email coaching session with a coaching client who is dealing with setbacks, lack of energy, procrastination after major progress and a perceived business set back. I think most people can relate to feeling like “I guess I am afraid it will take too long…that I may as well give up now and just be happy with my job…”

“…. So in the meantime, remember when you make any changes to your life that are major, even small ones sometimes too, it is a process of changing habits, thoughts, and neural pathways in your brain. Your ego and other internal systems, that have operated the same way for a long time, are designed to keep you ’safe’ by keeping you the same/stuck.  Your disappointment with the smoke shop simply dulled your energy and the other family events going on appeared to be also pulling you back.

Similar to parts of you, your family and those close to you will have to adapt to your changes and most people do not like change, in you or anything. This is why we must listen to our own inner voice and move on based on what is within us, not on what is outside of us, even those we love. You must realize that as you change and embrace your power, some people will not like it, but it is just energy and you will begin to attract new people who match the new you based on the new vibrations you are sending out.  Often people do not make the changes they really want in their lives because it feels, initially, that all the forces within them and around them are holding them back and the breakthrough seems harder than it is.
Good news! This is part of the transformation, and the reality is this feeling of being stuck is only skin deep. The key is to choose your new vibrations (thoughts, feelings, reality, beliefs, attitudes…) and keep steady to it, no matter what. Tell yourself that there is nothing more important that staying focused on who you are becoming and what you want and do your best to not let the other stuff distract you.
All the feelings you describe below are easier to understand if you look at it like a little kid having a temper tantrum… that is kind of what your ego and current state are doing to keep you stuck. “Why bother”, “it will be too much work”, “it will never work”, these kinds of things are the limiting beliefs talking. Procrastination is also fear of failure or success. I feel you are having more of a fear of success process. This usually goes something like this: “Why am I working so hard, nothing works out for me anyway. I’ll probably do all this and still get nothing for it. And what is I do get successful Then I have to work hard all the time, and people will expect things from me, I am fin the way I am now, no I am not happy, but how do I know I will really  be any happier when I do all this. What is I succedd and people want money from me? What is I make money and lose it? What if the clients I am trying to get don’t like what I do, or get mad, or cancel… I will look bad and be embarrassed. It is easier if I just don;lt put my self out there and get noticed. I mean I have to contact all these people and what if they say no, and don’t like what I have. It;s all just a waste of time, I am fooling myself thinking things can get better…” and so on…

You know you want more, and there is no going back now, you have tasted a happier life. There is a phase where it feels to hard to go forward and not possible to go back, and that is natural. It is possible for you to have more money and time and anything else you want. Think of this as if you are learning a new job, a music instrument or game. You have to study it, practice, look at your results, practice more keep reminding yourself of this ‘new’ way of being and so on.
You are NOT being lazy, that is a self defeating thought that is not you, it is the resistance. All the thoughts are. You just have to do whatever you can, moment by moment, day by day, to stay focused on your end goal, the feelings of happiness and inner peace you will feel when you have extra income and extra time. Each day it becomes easier and more habituated, until one day you will naturally think and feel this way and just go about your day like this.
It can be easier when you have someone who holds your dream as well, and yet , in truth, you are the one who makes it happen. So if you do not have anyone who ‘gets’ this, no worries, I am here and befriend yourself. Talk to yourself and help yourself, step by step to take a little action doing what you know you want to do to get the business going.
To get back on track simply be gentle with yourself, and to take small steps till your energy and emotions shift to more positive ones. The key is not to beat yourself up and feel guilty because you got off track and disappointed. This is a waste. So do what you can to not indulge in the feelings and thoughts like this. When you feel yourself thinking this way and feeling low or your energy dropping, stop and close your eyes. Take a breath and step back from yourself. Watch the thoughts and feelings move by in front of you like a stream, just be there. Allow the emotions to subside. Make sure you do not grab hold of any of them. By this I mean if you ’see’ the thought “am I lazy? What’s wrong with me?” be aware not to ‘grab’ it and run with it and start saying more thing like “Yea, I know and I always will be and it won’t change and why do I bother…”… you see? Separate yourself from the stream of depleting thoughts  and let them keep moving by, do not dive into them and go deeper. You may have to stop yourself a few times and redirect yourself back to watching instead of participating. This is normal, just keep stepping back, over and over till you can sit and watch. Once the feelings are not as intense,  then you can start to ask yourself this:
“This is not the real me, the real me is joy, prosperity, happiness, energy. This is just the old habits talking, and I can change those. Now I choose to feel I can do it, I choose to focus on the great life waiting for me just around the corner. Now I feel more calm, and I am feeling like the storm has passed and that is good, cause now I can look out with a clear view again and focus on the way I know my life can be, really is and will be shortly. I am in control of my thoughts and feelings, and I now choose energy, focus, happoiness….” you get the point, just slowly talk yourself up into a better feeling. It is not possible to accomplish when we feel low and defeated. So don’t try to make major changes when you feel like that, first allow the thoughts and feeling to move through you (do not supress or ignore them too long, as they get stuck, allow them to move through you ). Once the wave is over, you can begin to focus on feeling better,
When things do not go the way we hope, it simply means there is something better coming… hold the framework of “everything is an opportunity : firmly in your mine. Decide that even though the evidence showing up may not yet reflect this, that you KNOW, you BELIEVE, it is in the process of being created and delivered to you.  Use the experience to see new ways of doing things, and ask ‘what can I do in this situation next time that will best create the outcome I desire”.
For now I would think of things that make you feel good and do them, pick your energy up and choose one thing to focus on that will be easy to do and you will feel good when it is done. Once you accomplish it, write it in your proof journal (if you have one look back at your past successes and read them, very inspiring!) and then do a small celebration, go have ice cream or take a nap or whatever you like best. Then choose one more thing… think of it like you fell down a canyon and you simply have to climb back to the top and continue on, it is just energy and energy changes all the time!
Decide to adopt the attitude “Nothing can stop me from uncovering my dreams and living my abundant happy life, and this is just a bump on the road!”  Meditate, visualize your goals and then set a date to work on your … most important idea…. for 10 minutes only, just sit down and do something… then again….
Love, Nan”

Law of attraction and love

May 19, 2009 by Nan  
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Law of attraction and love. Great  topics, huh? Even better combined! I am excited to bring you 2 calls this week that will give you amazing insight into law of couple-in-heartattraction and love.  LOA coach Catherine Behan is going to talk to us about finding a soulmate. Using law of attraction to attract love… wondrous! I am going to teach a class “law of Attraction Lies and Truths” and how to really manifest while co creating with law of attraction. Romantic Love, self love, unconditional love, tough love, love of serving, love of receiving, love of your body, love of your mind, love of wealth, love of peace, love of joy, love of health, love of your talents, love of to hers talents, love is everywhere.

I saw this wonderful short film once from Spiritual Cinema. It was about law of attraction and finding love. A man and a woman, who did not know each other, were both looking for love. They were both reading books and practicing affirmations and watching movies like the Secret’. They were very passionate about finding romantic love, and we focused constantly on thinking things like : I attract a fun, loving partner now”, ‘I Am lovable and the right partner appears for me now”. The more intent they became about asking over and over, wanting the law of attraction to work for them, they less they noticed what was going on around them.

They went through a series of mishaps, separately until they meet at the end and fall in love. Then they flash back and they show you how many times they actually ran into each other and how they could have met much earlier. They had literally been running into each other over and over. However, because they were so intent on their thoughts and their affirmations, they were in completely inwardly focused.  Absorbed by their thoughts, they were out of touch with the present moment. They did not see what was around them. They did not connect with or fully experience the Now moment. In their own world they were visualizing the perfect partner with tons of passion. Yet they did not look for it now they had asked.

Law of attraction is based on magnetic fields; like attract like. So they did meet, they did attract each other, and at record speed in fact. Thankfully the Universe kept giving them more chances to meet, each time they missed an opportunity. You never know what is waiting for you… everything is opportunity! LOA worked, and they got it in the end… they could have gotten what they wanted much faster though! But because they did not notice the first, second, third, even fourth time they ran into each other! They did not see what law of attraction had brought them! It was sweet and funny and such a great reminder.

This is just one of the key components to understanding law of attraction and how to co create with it. Once you have decided what you want, and focused on it, seen it in your minds eye…. you must begin to look around for it with great expectation. It is a dance between inward focus and outward focus. They cycle, see and visualize what you want, then trust it is heard and begin to ‘hunt’ for it. I call it your treasure map, your manifestation map. You ask, and then shift to expectation and begin to look for it to come to you from anywhere.

This is one of the many components of law of attraction we will discuss on May 20th. Join me as we unravel what is true and what is not. What works and what doesn’t, and best of all how to align with your real purpose and flow through life with joy! “Law of attraction Lies and Truths” 9 May 20th Eastern/6pm Pacific, 90 minutes includes mp3.

Join LOA Love Coach Catherine Behan and I for a tips on using law of attraction to attract true love. Soulmate Mastermind. Wednesday May 20th 4pm Eastern/1pm Pacific FREE!

Love is in the air…

May 18, 2009 by Nan  
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Love is in the air… do you feel it? Do you have it? Do you want it?

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Are you looking for a soulmate? Wishing for love in all the wrong places? Does your heart whisper romance, and no one is there to share it? Has your heart been broken and you are ready for love, but scared or don’t know where to look or what to do? This week at Create Your Own Reality we will focus on opening our hearts, attracting true love, healing our past hurt and loving ourselves.
I had such an amazing weekend of love, especially yesterday! I had declared this week as “love” week here at Create Your Own Reality. I have lined up some great classes, free calls, healings and such for the week. Well, just that small amount of focus on the idea of making “Love” a theme this week attracted the most amazing things! I live with my beautiful, and amazing boyfriend Chris. He is such a loving, kind, caring, supportive and giving man. I feel loved all the time, and appreciated too! So being showered with love is not unusual here, and yet it astounded me what happened and I wanted to share it with you!
Friday night Chris took me on a date, planned it and found the best Chinese restaurant, (authentic) I have been to since I was in London last! Then we saw Star Trek. Saturday we had friends coming over for dinner and he got up early, left me a note to sleep and relax and he did the grocery shopping and bought me flowers! We had a wonderful day including making love and napping! He knows I have had some stress from my ex, and so he would show up several times each day asking “What can I do for you now? How can I suuport you?”… what a love!
Sunday I had no real plans except to relax. I woke up to kisses and more “what can i do for you today”? We snuggled and chatted, my favorite thing to do! Then he mentioned breakfast and the next thing I knew I was being served breakfast in bed! That is a first! He brought me a tray with a gorgeous omelet, made from egg whites onions and cream cheese with multi seed bread, yum! There was even a flower decorating the tray! After we ate, I still did not want to get out of bed, so he brought me warm raspberry pie with whip cream in bed! I savored it and then settled in for a short nap. The rest of the day continued to be so full of love, love making and special attention! We went for a walk in the woods by our house (aw a rattlesnake too, a big one! Hmmm… transformation!), spent an hour or so in the jacuzzi and pool and then Chris took me out again! This time we went to see “Angels and Demons” at the Alamo Drafthouse, a fabulous group of theatres where you get served food and drinks during the movie! The day ended in his arms, and as I drifted off to sleep, close to this amazing man, filled with gratitude and love, I thought “Thank you for this, Thank you for Chris, I love Chris, more of this please”
See what just a choice of focus on love attracted? You can do this too…see what I have for you this week (below) and invite love into your life!
  1. Law of Attraction Truths and Lies Class: Wednesday May 20th at 9PM Eastern/6PM Pacific 90 minutes includes the mp3 download of the class and a printable chart! Learn how LOA really works and attract love,wealth, health…anything with the support of the Universe!
  2. Intend Global Healing Call: Free healing call on attracting love, healing and opening your heart. Thursday May 21st at Noon Central
  3. Join me for a FREE hour with LOA Love Coach Catherine Behan as she discuses how to BE a soulmate to attract a soulmate! This Soul Mate Mastermind Preview Call is specifically for high achieving go-getters who are finally getting around to putting themselves at the top of their priority list.
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Start by deciding to love yourself this week, no matter what! Then look for love, it is all around you!
Nan
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Claim your life now

May 1, 2009 by Nan  
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“It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.”  –Alan Cohen

Everyone wants change, yet is afraid of it. Everyone wants something better, different, and most people never actually change. Isn’t the lack of change frustrating? Isn’t the struggle tiring? Isn’t the desire for security and the fear of failure just sucking your energy?

I know the feeling. I love change myself. It isn’t always easy or pleasant, yet I find feeling stuck to be worse, much worse. So I dive into things and wham!! Massive breakdowns, breakthroughs and eventually… goodies! Yes, I feel fear and yes, some changes have been so painful and shocking that it has taken a good amount of time an effort to find myself again. It is always worth it though, always.

I have had so many experiences in my life that required enormous courage and I felt fear, believe me, and I did it anyway. Facing things that you know you HAVE to do, because your inner voice is very clear and you can feel with all your beingness that this is what you are meant to do, is scary and yet empowering. I have had to fire employees, yuck, and yet each time it became easier to have compassion for them and be true to myself. I asked my husband of 25 years for a separation and eventually a divorce, and I was so scared of hurting and upsetting him. I am so very glad I finally did it, it freed me. It was horrendously painful and the 3 years that it took to finalize were the most devastating I had experienced other than my daughter dying. Worth it. I even ended up ‘divorcing’ my parents, as they turned their back on me emotionally and sided with my ex.

Why was I willing to do that and go through the disapproval, the pain, the guilt and the financial hardship? My inner being needed to be free. It became more important for me to live the life I know I was meant to live, to express myself, help others and enjoy every moment. It was not possible within that situation. I held on to the familiar way too long! It was oddly easier to stay, to suffer in silence and think positively, put my energy into my business and my kids and ignore the fact I felt suffocated, unsupported, trapped and weighed down. What a waste of time and energy! Now, I look back and wish I had done it earlier, way earlier. It was not worth those years of my life gone, lived in partial joy and a lot of self blame. Not for the security of a house and husband with a good paycheck, not for the ‘appearance’ of doing the right thing (marriage, children, work hard, blah blah…).

Why didn’t I get the courage to get out sooner? I believed that it would get better again. I thought I could fix it. I was strong and had a lot of stamina and pushed myself to be everything for everyone. I was determined to be the best, nicest and most successful and please all these other people. I thought if I just made enough money my husband would be happy and be less stressed and full of fear all the time. I hoped he would start to treat me kindly again once we got past whatever the current busy-ness was. I thought if I tried harder, did more and never spoke up about my feelings he would care about me, value me and thank me. Fat chance! Why? Because it was all his fault? No, that thinking is victim vibe thinking and is a trap you may never get out of. Yes, I was hurt and angry with him and I did not want to live with him anymore. I did want him to be happy though, and I do not blame him, I know I am responsible.

So why was it ‘fat chance’ anything was going to change? Because we cannot change other people. Becasue I was and am responsible for staying, for believing, for choosing to trust him and others, for waiting for them to change. I am the one that chose to ignore it, to trust people and to stay around people who gave me no respect. I am the one who did not put myself first. No one else can do that but me. It was never going to change because all my focus was on trying to please others, trying to fit into what others thought I should do or be. Hoping things would just get better or thinking if I just did the right things, my husband and parents and everyone else would be pleased, happy and approve of me. I would get love and then all would be good. NOT.

I want to invite you to truly look at your life, your current emotional state. How do you feel about things? Money, love, house, job, health, your body, business, your state of mind, inner peace. Is there some area or many areas you have wanted, wished for and even worked towards change and not achieved it? Is there something you need to have shift RIGHT NOW in order to have inner peace and for you to move forward in joy? I know many people are feeling a money crunch right now, for starters. Well, really go deep, and think about it. Movement is life, stuckness is death. Living death.

I can promise you it feels soooo much better to summon the courage and let go of the past, and clutter and event the familiar, and commit to change. Your life is lived in this now moment, and unless you grab it and fill it up fully with what YOU want, then what is the point? The point is not to follow a bunch of rules, be the nicest person, avoid conflict, try to please everyone else, keep working hard so one day you might be happy and enjoy yourself… Stop right now!!

Why? Doing these and so many more things that do not feed our soul is such an incredible waste~ of time, energy, life, joy, love… Living your own life the way you intended does require courage. It does requires transforming your mindset, choosing what you want and not what others want for you. It requires really being honest with yourself and others and believing, loving and expressing yourself. It is ‘work’… and yet, it can be so fun and the end result is sooo worth it!

Even if it scares you to let go of your perception of security (sorry, there is no real security, it is just an illusion), the familiar people, things, places and work, you must do it. You must do it to claim your life, your power and your joy. Your success, in all areas of life even love, will come only when you are willing to let go and choose from within. Choose from within you, what your inner being, your authentic self desires. As you do this, you move into a whole new vibration, literally. You attract a whole new life… people, situations, moods, events, opportunities and more. It is like living in a different world when you decide to have the courage to live your life on your terms and no one elses! Everything feels possible, even probable and you have an inner trust and peace that pervades your whole life. What a difference!

Can you relate? Are you in a relationship, job, body or financial situation that is so uncomfortable you can barely stand it anymore, yet you stay? If so, then I want to be here for you. I have been through it and I want to help. I am available for coaching and the group coaching class is going to “Make if Happen” this month, really see results! I have free calls, many audios and classes. What can I do to help you find the courage, let go of the familiar and move into a life of adventure, excitement, movement, riches, joy and true inner expression that brings the ultimate…bliss!? I give all I have to give and am always searching for what you want and need to make the transformation to your ultimate life. Please let me know how I can help! Comment here or email me nan@createyourownrealitynow.com I am always pleased to present a free class for your clients, do speaking engagements and partner with like minded people. Let me know how, together, we can co create a life of adventure, wealth and fun!

Some more resources:

Tune in to your inner voice and amplify your intuition for greater clarity and inner peace! IntuitionAccelerator.com
Transform your relationship with money for good! Total Wealth Transformation Program Masteryourmoneymind.com
Tune in tho the energy and essence of money: BetheSpiritofMoney.com
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Give yourself permission to make money…

April 30, 2009 by Nan  
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Would you like for the wealth you have been chasing to chase you instead?

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Sounds good, huh? I want Money to run to me, play with me, stay with me. I chased Money. It doesn’t work, not long term. And it isn’t much fun either, right?
Ready to turn the flow ofMoney towards you and ride the wave of wealth? Cool, me too… So I want to share with you what works and how you can get started today!
And do me a favor, will you? Don’t dismiss this before you have allowed your inner being to see if this is THE opportunity the Universe has lined up for you? We too often hold up the skeptic and say ‘that’s not for me” or “you are just selling something”… and often miss the exact opportunity we have been asking for. No matter what you feel in the moment, the Universe is always bringing us the exact opportunities to lead us to the life experience we desire.
I know everyone has some pain and frustration over Money…so wouldn’t it be really great if you took this opportunity now and change yours?
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And I really do feel like it has to do with you being my coach!  Thanks so much, Love, Fran”
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Choose wealth now and let go of the struggle!

Make it happen

April 28, 2009 by Nan  
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“You don’t become enormously successful without encountering some really interesting problems.” - Mark Victor Hansen

I began real estate investing about 9 years ago. In my first year I encountered problems and people I had no idea existed. I bought 5 houses in one week at the end of the 3rd month in business. I had never rehabbed a house before and so I hired a contractor I met on another site. We agreed on a price, he signed the contract and we got started. All went well for a few weeks and then he stopped showing up. At the time I had not idea this was common for contractors. I called, I left notes at the house, I laid awake at night worrying and stressing out. Finally I got a message from his wife, who I had never met. She claimed he did not feel I had paid him enough, and he would not do anymore work and that he had filed a lien on the property. I freaked out.
I cried, I complained, I screamed injustice from the rooftops. Did it help? No. Just caused me more stress. I was in shock, he had agreed and I had even made a schedule of payments and had paid him several times already. Finally, I called a friend who had been in this business for awhile. He called and tried to talk to his wife, she called him a racist and hung up! (This was one Hispanic to another, so who knows where she got that!!) My head was spinning, my sense of ‘fairness” was insulted and I was stunned.
Then I found out that this contractor was famous for doing this! Two very successful and seasoned investors came to me and asked about the situation. When I told them who it was, they explained that this man had done this to both of them, and some others they knew. That his entire M.O. was to start a job, do a great job for a short time and then begin to complain, ask for more money and not show up. They told me no matter what I did, he would not finish, or be ‘reasonable’. His intent was to start as many job as as possible, collect up front money and then stall and look for something to complain about and then file a lien.
I could talk for hours about all the pain, fear, stress and emotional trauma I went through. There was a lot of money on the line, I was new and inexperienced in this business, and I lived with a negative, unsupportive spouse who hated my business and was not about to console or help me. My mind would not stop going over the facts and how this person was a liar, and was screwing me over.

What happened? Well, in the end, none of these problems stopped me. I made it happen. I worked through my fears, I let go of the sense of injustice and wanting the contractor to do what he promised to do and I asked for help. In the end I had to hire another contractor, and pay the first one $1000 to drop the lien so I could sell the house (yes, even though he did not ‘deserve’ it). Was it fair? No. Was it stressful, yes. Did I learn a ton? Most definitely! What was the biggest lesson? (believe me there were many!!!!) You get to choose what to do and what to feel about anything that happens. You get to let go and move on, instead of getting stuck in ‘it’s not fair’.  You get to choose success, despite anyone else.
I learned more doing Real Estate investing than almost any other thing. It really pushed me out of my comfort zone and made me face my fears. It made me see more of the big picture and most of all… it made me more determined that no one else was going to steal my dreams. I was in charge of my reality and I was going to make it happen. I kept solving problems and moving forward. I was rewarded. The best reward to me though, was the incredible expansion within me. I found strength, focus, and commitment. I found confidence and I increased my tolerance for stress. That means less things stressed me, i saw things more as a step on the path, not the end. I always looked for another way, a solution and I always found a door. I kept saying “no one is keeping me from my dream,” and I did what I had to do to achieve it.

May is approaching and I want to help you “Make it Happen”! What? Anything you desire!! This is the last week of ‘Anything is Possible” month. My group coaching has been cleaning up the internal blocks and opening to possibilities. Next month’s theme is “Make it Happen”. I love making it happen!! Isn’t it the best thrill in life when something you have desired and focused on happens? You bet it is!! So, do you feel full of possibility? Do you feel like anything is possible and you can have whatever you want?
I know what it feels like to know I am capable and deserving of anything I want, and I know what it feels like to NOT feel like that! We have only one thing that keeps us from having the exact life experience we desire… it is ourselves! Yes, you are the one stopping you, and you may not even know you are doing it or why! And even more important; are you letting perceived failures, negative people, or outcomes that aren’t what you hoped for stop you? Like Mark says in the quote above, success brings with it a whole bunch of interesting ‘problems’. Do you let them paralyze you? Achieving what you want has to be worth it to you, because making it happen means letting nothing stop you! Maybe you have not even gotten started in moving towards your goals from fear you don’t know how, can’t handle what comes up or feel unworthy?
I have been in business for myself for over 25 years now. I have had 5 different businesses from large to small, from employees to just me. I have pushed past my comfort zone and faced my fears over and over again. I know how to problem solve and how to stay positive, keep moving forward and enjoy the journey. I do not want to see anything stop you from living the life you truly want. I want to help you align your internal world with the external one, so you can experience the kind of joy, happiness, wealth, health and love you deserve! Don’t let anyone steal your dream!
I have coached people for over 9 years on staying businesses, changing their mindset, releasing the past, attracting money, finding their purpose, creating a real estate investment portfolio and more. I know that life and business especially, brings it’s challenges. It is when we hit a wall, when we most need the internal tools and strength and support to move onward. It is in knowing the laws and rules of the game, understanding other people and aligning with our selves that gives us the knowing of what to do and when to do it.
It is having a guide and someone who believes in us to keep us going when it seems hard. I am here for you.
In May I am doing as much as I can to show you how to “Make it Happen” in your life! Here is a just some of the things I will be doing to assist you in ‘Making it Happen’ now, the way you want it!
Group Wealth Coaching:
My group monthly wealth coaching is only $47 or $147, and you get way way more than that in value!

The theme for next month is  : “Make it Happen”
After the ‘anything is possible month’, the group is feeling very clear and light. They have powerful tools to use like my daily routine, the wealth download “Everything is an Opportunity” and much more. In May you will learn how to use magnetic goals and draw financial success to you. I know you want results & change! I know you want to be living the life that makes you smile each day you get up, so support yourself in achieving the success you want and raise your energy, focus your mind, power up your hearts and make it happen!
May group wealth coaching will focus on and achieve:
  • Creating one new habit
  • Transforming One Limiting Belief
  • Achieving One Goal

How does that compare to what you made happen in April?

See more of what is coming in May:

Law if Attraction lies and truths class
Global Teleclass free “Free Your Mind and the Wealth Will Follow”
Ask My Money Muse Free Call
intend Global Healing Free weekly healing

And keep your eyes and ears open, because the 30 Day Transformation Challenge is coming and you DO NOT want to miss this!!

New ways to a free mind and a wealthy heart

April 14, 2009 by Nan  
Filed under Blog

I wanted to share with you that there is a new name for my new group coaching (starting tomorrow… come on!!!) and for my work in general:
Free Mind ~ Wealthy Heart. Why? Because I know that our heart is our point of creation, literally and our mind must be free in order to manifest the lives we desire. These Coaching Programs are guides on how to live a heart centered and heart powered life of inner peace, wealth, love, joy and health, NOW!
To celebrate and offer you more value and support I have added some exciting new things to ensure your transformation.

NEWLY ADDED!!!

  • Written messages emailed on the weeks in between with a focus & action for the call ahead
  • Free Mind~Wealthy Heart master mindset tips email each Monday to jumpstart your
  • week of success with a focus on the topic of the month and a ’statement of limitless potential’ ‘Wealth Download: Everything is an Opportunity’ mp3 audio

I have also had a lot of questions about the new group monthly wealth coaching programs. So here is some more info, and most of this and more is on the coaching site at UltimateAwarenessCoaching.com

What is Free Mind ~ Wealthy Heart Coaching? Wealth is not just money and financial riches., It is a rich way of life, a mindset and an aligned way of living that makes e-z manifesting and joy the norm. So wealth in finances, love, health, joy and so on is our ultimate goal. Achieving a state of Wealthy Awareness is a heart centered way of living with inner peace, joy, fulfillment, purpose, love, personal power, conscious creation and choice, health… It is consistently expanding your mind, heart and energy. Guided fine tuning to our massive spiritual potential. A free mind and a wealthy heart means immense personal power and conscious creation. Enlightening tools reveal awareness, and a life of significance and happiness.

STARTS APRIL 15th, Join Anytime: April sessions: April 15th & 29th at 7pm Central. By locking in your membership now,
each month you are an active member, you will receive:

Premier Monthly Coaching gives you all this:

  1. Two (2) 70 Minute Monthly Calls. One is a group coaching call. One is Question and Answer Call… both live!
  2. Access to the recorded calls to listen to or download at your convenience and the option to
  3. purchase the CD, which will be shipped to you.
  4. NEWLY ADDED!!! Written messages emailed to on the weeks in between with
  5. a focus and action for the call ahead
  6. NEWLY ADDED!!! Free Mind~Wealthy Heart master mindset tips email each Monday to jumpstart your
  7. NEWLY ADDED!!! ‘Wealth Download: Everything is an Opportunity’ mp3 audio
  8. week of success with a focus on the topic of the month and a ’statement of limitless potential’
  9. 25% Off all my Teleclasses
  10. 30% Off All audio Products
Top Shelf Monthly Coaching gives you all this:

  1. Two (2) 70 Minute Monthly Calls. One is a group coaching call. One is Question and Answer Call… both live!
  2. One Private Lazer Coaching Session with Nan, one on one (30 minutes) ($350 Value)
  3. One Email Coaching session with Nan ($97 value)
  4. NEWLY ADDED!!! Written messages emailed to on the weeks in between with
  5. a focus and action for the call ahead
  6. NEWLY ADDED!!! Master MIndset Tips email each Monday to jumpstart your
  7. week of success with a focus on the topic of the month and a ’statement of limitless potential’
  8. NEWLY ADDED!!! ‘Wealth Download: Everything is an Opportunity’ mp3 audio
  9. Access to the recorded calls to listen to or download at your convenience and the option to
  10. purchase the CD, which will be shipped to you.
  11. **30% off Coaching: Ultimate Coaching Pac, One time Coaching Session, Monthly Priority Coaching
  12. **30% Off all my Teleclasses
  13. 30% Off Audio Products
One or more calls per month may feature a member who needs help… sign up now and apply to be coached live! Special benefits each month such as; surprise gifts, discounted classes, special workshops and advance notice of limited events. Complimentary VIP subscription to ‘Free Mind ~ Wealthy Heart’ A Newsletter for Transformation and receive 3 Free Mp3’s. Of course you can join anytime, it is an ongoing program and you alwsys get the audio downloadable mp3’s! However, isn’t right now the best time to take actions that will actually make a difference in your life??
Join now, the first call is tomorrow…

UltimateAwarenessCoaching.com

Want change? Take this quiz now

April 6, 2009 by Nan  
Filed under Blog

Answer these questions and reveal the fog that keeps you from making change happen! Then see the E-Z solution…

  • Do you dislike your current circumstances? (Income, love life, living situation, health?)
  • Do you feel there is someone in your life that is limiting you and what you are capable of?
  • Do you feel like all your energy and time goes to taking care of everyone else’s needs and you never get to yours?
  • Do you feel like you are not good enough to have the job, relationship or body you desire?
  • Do you spend time most days fretting over a past incident and how you wished it had gone differently?
  • Do you feel anger towards someone in your life, past or present?
  • Do you think you were treated unfairly at work, by your spouse, in a divorce or other family matter?
  • Do you want your mom, dad or spouse to treat you better?
  • Do you wish someone would apologize to you for a hurtful, cruel or insensitive event?
  • Do you feel like others get what they want, but you never do?
  • Do you feel like you always miss out or never win anything?
  • Do you say things like “well that’s typical of my life” when things don’t work out?
  • Do you feel afraid to ask for what you want because someone may not like you, or you may upset someone?
  • Do you ask yourself “why me”?
  • Do you want to have more time to yourself and your dreams but feel you have obligations to others that have to come first and can’t be changed?
  • Do you have big dreams but feel like you did not have the right education, upbringing or money to make it happen?
  • Do you regret staying in a relationship, at a job or in a certain living situation so long and feel like you wasted your time?
  • Do you want more and feel like no matter how hard you work at it, nothing changes?
  • Do you feel weak, dis empowered and unable to focus, concentrate and accomplish the things you want to do?
  • Do you seek attention by being sick, upset or unable? Did your parents only give you the attention you desired when you were really suffering?
  • Do you feel wrongly accused, misunderstood or like a failure because someone else does not approve of you?
  • Do you expect to fail?
  • Are you afraid to commit to do something because you feel you will not follow through?
  • Do you feel apathetic and uninspired because you do not feel anything you do will make a difference?
  • Are you waiting for someone to ask you, notice you or invite you?
  • Are you wishing you were treated with more respect and received more recognition?
  • Do you blame someone for what you have or don’t have right now?
  • Do you feel anything in your life, your health, cashflow, body, past…anything limits you and keeps you from having, doing and being what you truly want?

How many yes’s?

OK…well if you answered ‘yes’ to even ONE of those questions, you will benefit from my 90 minute class on Thursday April 9th…and best of all , it is only $19.97! Imagine transforming all that into personal power, energy,clarity, inner peace, wealth and happiness! Yes, any of these feelings and much more is caused by victim energy or what I call the ‘Victim Vibe’. You do not have to be immersed in a ‘poor me’ attitude or totally unsuccessful in life to still have some victim vibe running through your thoughts, beliefs and system.

My new Transform your life Class series kicks on April 9th with “Escape the Victim Vibe”. You will find out how pervasive this vibration is in our thoughts, beliefs, our bodies and our bank accounts….even in our government and justice system. It is reinforced in our media, by lawyers, by friends and family. It is all around us, and it is devastating to our ability to create and enjoy the life of our dreams.

There are rich people who still feel wronged and angry at a past event or persons, therefore do not have inner peace or true joy. There are thin people who still have body issues and feel not good enough. There are happy people who still have not found love or wealth.  You do not have to feel like a victim in every area of your life in order to be affected by the victim vibe. But I can promise you that whatever is not working in your life, is definitely affected by this energy of being a victim and not claiming our power and responsibility.

When we let anything at all make us feel like someone or something outside ourselves is preventing us from having what we want, we still have the victim vibe flowing thru us. We all have the victim vibe, it is an energy we took on as children and have never let go of. Even people who feel very confident and successful on some areas have other areas that do not work and they feel less than in.

We are 100% responsible for our lives. For how we feel, what we see and attract and if we let ourselves receive and enjoy what is being given to us. Are you ready to change that and claim your power to create your life the way you want? Read more here

Join the transform your Life: Escape the Victim Vibe class now! You get the audio too! Only $19.97!
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Trust and life is magic

October 6, 2008 by Nan  
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What a wonderful weekend I had, and all the while I was enjoying it, my business was growing! I can’t tell you how the magic of life has been opening up for me! I am literally overjoyed (is that possible, to have too much joy?) many times a day at the way the Universe, God, the divine, source, whatever you choose to call it, takes care of us and lines up what we want!

I went to a fluency workshop, which is what I do, you tune in and access ‘true’ information from source, your inner voice etc. You heal, release, clear, open, and do this with a group of open, loving and beautiful people. I met wonderful people, who truly wanted to transform their lives, have more joy, release physical and emotional pain and blocks. The way that the energies come together is so beautiful. I met new friends and connected with old ones, we played and ‘worked’ …on our issues and changes we desired, we ate wonderful food cooked by our gracious hostess and we hugged, cried, opened our hearts.

To add to that joyful event, my beloved, who was there too! and I did a home exchange, which we love to do, and got to stay in this gorgeous mansion, free, overlooking a private canyon, with 5000 SF of decking, 2 pools and 10 person jacuzzi, a media room, 100 windows and more. We invited the group over for a dinner and party one night and got to share the luxury and 5 of us were up till 4AM in the jacuzzi and pool, laughing and clearing each others deepest fears and blocks. I absolutely LOVE the combination of fun, joy and deep spiritual transformation!

Allowing ourselves to truly accept and absorb our bountiful fortune, that was only arranged 3 days prior, was the key to this whole experience. What I mean is, all of this showed up, and in such an easy and wonderful way, because we both were open to it, we accepted we were worthy, we allowed the Universe to line it up and didn’t worry or fuss. Trust and the magic is revealed. Trust and things better than you could imagine show up. Next you have to look for them, be open to them, expect them. Manifesting what you want is a strange combination of intent and desire, focused clarity of what you want, combined with detachment, deserving, trusting and staying in a state of relaxed joy. You can ask for, intend, vision and think all day every day about what you want, but if you are focused to intently you may miss it, or if you are fearful you may not get it, you will keep it from being seen, or if you don’t truly feel you deserve it, you will not allow it into your experience even if it is standing on your doorstop ringing your doorbell all day.

Law of attraction is an interesting law, it is not somethign that works now and then or only for worthy people, however, even though it us working all the time, you have to be aligned, tuned in and relaxed and aware enough to actually get to experience it.

I have been opening myself to TOTALLY trusting the Universe.  I mean I have trusted mostly for a long long time, and amazing things happen to me constantly. However, I never trusted anyone or anything COMPLETELY…and that has been my challenge.

For the last 4 weeks I have given over my needs and wants to the Universe, and my council ) unseen energies I work with to create what I want). I do what I am most inspired to do in each moment, and not what my thinker brain tells me I ’should’ do…it is an interesting experience and you get to see how much you struggle and try to control your life and everything in it. Letting go of the control and just doing what I am “told” (to me that means what I am most inspired to do in that moment is what the Universe is guiding me to do, because it will lead me to what I want and give me the most joy).

While I was off having fun, and ‘working’ (I did past life regressions, ego talks, cleared old belief patterns, made personal vibrational essence mixes (see my site MagicPotionsforyou.com and more for people this weekend)…I had 2 new coaching clients email me, a new vibration essence client, 2 new sign ups for my upcoming class called “Ego Power: Synergize your Inner Team to Create with Ease and Velocity” (check it out, it starts this Thursday and it is powerful stuff on talking to your ego and finding and releasing blocks, and creating a partnership with your ego so you can create what you want without struggle, plus working with other energies and systems that and more).

That is magic, all things flowing perfectly while you enjoy yourself and serve others. Life is magic, we just have to allow it in and stop controling.

If you want to clear negative beliefs, past, pain, or heal, create money, love, health or success, please sign up for coaching, for a limited time, if you are a new client, you get your first session for only $97. I would love to see you breakthrough to the magic of life too! FreethePowerinyou.com

Create Your Reality News #10

September 30, 2008 by Nan  
Filed under Newsletter

Happy day to you all!

I am overjoyed to wish you a happy passion day, because to me, living your passion is what life is all about. Living with it, in it and inspiring others to live theirs as well! Like I said in my email today :”I am excited to tell you all about how you can ignite your passion and uncover your purpose! Isn’t that what we all want? Well, that and to be happy…yet that is what makes us happy, at the deepest level!”

So let’s get to it!

~ International Passion day is here! See the movie!

~ Law of attraction plain and simple now available

~ Discover your purpose and passion and create it with ease!

~ Last day for sale prices on coaching…act now!

International Passion Day is Today!

What a fantastic idea i think this is! What is more fun, more exhilarating than passion? We have all felt it, we all yearn to feel it again! And, I believe, we are all meant to live our passions freely, day to day, not once in a great while!

Well, not only is today declared passion day, and the book “The Passion Test” is being released in paperback with tons of cool bonuses (including one from me on “Getting Ego on Your Side”)… Chris and Janet Attwood, the authors, have set a high  goal which I plan to assist them in; to inspire at least five million people to take action to follow their passions and begin living their life purpose!

http://www.thepassiontest.com/offer/home?af=na

So Chris and Janet have created an eye-opening movie presentation to tantalize you and celebrate International Passion Day.

Take the time to review the wonderful promotion of the book, but then scroll down the page to “Passion Day Movie” and take four minutes to watch this remarkable video presentation. It will inspire and uplift you, and it will also provoke you to think about where you are in your life, and where you could be.

And get my “Getting Ego on Your Side” Audio FREE1

http://www.thepassiontest.com/offer/home?af=na

Law of attraction plain and simple:

I am very excited to share some great news with you about a special event called The Great Inner Peace and Extraordinary Living Give-Away. You see, my friend Sonia Ricotti has brought together a large number of success experts and bestselling authors from around the globe to promote her newest book, The Law of Attraction, Plain and Simple: Create the Extraordinary Life That You Deserve.

To participate, you only need to purchase a copy of her book online today and then you will receive more than

$10,000 worth of FREE GIFTS from some of your favorite teachers from The Secret, including Marci Shimoff, Lisa Nichols, Bob Proctor, Bob Doyle, John Assaraf, Joe Vitale, and many other amazing self-help professionals!

One of which is my ebook, “Unlock the door to all you desire!” Find out all you need to know at http://www.leadoutloud.ca/lawofattraction/.

How do you find your purpose when you can’t even find time to read a book?

I hear a lot of people say they are so busy, kids, work, bills, house…it all gets overwhelming. And yet, so many of us hear the calling of our inner voice saying “there’s more”…if you have wondered what life is about, or wanted more….if you have felt there must be a easier and more fun way to create what you want, be happy, make money, lose weight or find the love of your life, then you deserve to discover the immense world within you.

You have so much support right inside you, all the time. Most of us have never learned how to hear it, tap into it. You have a “team” of energies that are there just for you! They want to help, they do, the best they can…but imagine if you could communicate with them, find out why you find it hard to do certain things, or why you feel sad, angry or lonely. Imagine if you could talk to your energy team and align with them  so that you would all be focused in the same direction, working towards what you truly want, in exactly the way you want it? What if you could blast away the pain and the past and operate from a whole new set of beliefs?

This is exactly what I do with my coaching clients (see next section and get signed up today for the sale price!) AND what we are going to do in the upcoming FreethPowerinYou.com class.

If you go now, you can  hear a one hour audio on how to do this yourself and all about what we will do in the class and more. You will find it will benefit you greatly, and allow you to feeel whole again, connected with yourself and you will feel such inner peace and power. Please check it out, I know it will be such a gift to you!

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Today, September 30th, is the last day to get coaching sessions for only $97!

As I have been saying, the realizations, shifts, releasing and clarity that you can gain from coaching is limitless. I have so much fulfillment working with people and watching them breakthrough. Physical healing, emotional peace, mental clarity and discovering your purpose are only a few things that results form these sessions.

http://www.createyourownrealitynow.com/ultimate-awareness-coaching/

If you resonate with this at all, check it out, I am honored and open to be here for you!

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