I was laying awake last night wondering why…

I was laying awake last night, buzzing from the wonderful call with James Van Praagh, feeling the beautiful shifts that the
Belief Transforming class is ALREADY having… (yes, ALREADY and the class has not begun! THAT is how powerful this stuff is… )

… and I began to wonder why….

Why wouldn’t someone want to shift their beliefs and start to live with more ease, and natural confidence and joy?

What would be the reason someone would deny themselves the opportunity to make their life more abundant… really go to the core of the reason for their struggles, lack and fear?

Let go of past life vows of poverty, lack mentality…

Do you know?

Why did you decide not to join the class?

Did you think, oh that won’t work for me?
Or
Did you think “I can’t afford it”… even though
in the powerful preview call I offer payment options…
Or
Did you think you can’t change… or that good things don’t happen for you?
Or
maybe you thought “I’ve tried that before and it didn’t work for me”?

Have you listened to this preview call?  No? Why? You can get a shift for Free! Listen!

http://AttendThisEvent.com/?eventid=12875277

Do you realize all these limitations you see and all these things you tell yourself, and all the excuses are BELIEFS???

That is what puzzles me the most… what we BELIEVE keeps us stuck and keeps us from taking action, from grasping opportunities that show up… and then we sit and say nothing works.

Nothing works if you do nothing. Nothing works if you BELIEVE it doesn’t. Nothing works if you don’t care for yourself enough to do something that will truly change your life and gather the courage to step up and ask for help.

I connect with Source and say “show me how I can help, how I can guide, lead, inspire and share how to truly transform” and then I bring it to you. I wish I could come to you all one by one and ask you “Why?”… “Why won’t you take my hand and let me help you up?

Why won’t you put yourself first and take this chance?”

I wish I could come to each of you and take your hand and tell you how beautiful, worthy, wonderful, talented and abundant you are…

I am here. If you want to create a way to make this happen for you, I am here….

Here is what one class attendee sent to me last night. I was so delighted, I thought I would share it…

“Dear Nan:
OMG!!! I am so amazed about the shifts that are unfolding for me – and I am just beginning. I have been following your blog for a while, and I bought your book on the launch – although I’ve just started reading it.

I just listened to your intro to that class. (I was one of those folks who was interested but said I couldn’t afford it.) I was so touched and excited by that intro call that I just had to write you! Thank you, thank you, thank you for who you are being in the world – which is total generosity and light and love. I want to be like you when I grow up. J

I am really looking forward to being on the call tomorrow. Kind regards, Sandra”

I send you blessings in all you do.. and I will always hold you in my reality as abundant, worthy and courageous!
Love you
Nan

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Free Preview Call: Transform your Beliefs about Money, Struggle & Worthiness

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Answer these questions and reveal the fog that keeps you from making change happen! Then see the E-Z solution…

• Do you dislike your current circumstances? (Income, love life, living situation, health?)
• Do you feel there is someone in your life that is limiting you and what you are capable of?
• Do you feel like all your energy and time goes to taking care of everyone else’s needs and you never get to yours?
• Do you feel like you are not good enough to have the job, relationship or body you desire?
• Do you spend time most days fretting over a past incident and how you wished it had gone differently?
• Do you feel anger towards someone in your life, past or present?
• Do you think you were treated unfairly at work, by your spouse, in a divorce or other family matter?
• Do you want your mom, dad or spouse to treat you better?
• Do you wish someone would apologize to you for a hurtful, cruel or insensitive event?
• Do you feel like others get what they want, but you never do?
• Do you feel like you always miss out or never win anything?
• Do you say things like “well that’s typical of my life” when things don’t work out?
• Do you feel afraid to ask for what you want because someone may not like you, or you may upset someone?
• Do you ask yourself “why me”?
• Do you want to have more time to yourself and your dreams but feel you have obligations to others that have to come first and can’t be changed?
• Do you have big dreams but feel like you did not have the right education, upbringing or money to make it happen?
• Do you regret staying in a relationship, at a job or in a certain living situation so long and feel like you wasted your time?
• Do you want more and feel like no matter how hard you work at it, nothing changes?
• Do you feel weak, dis empowered and unable to focus, concentrate and accomplish the things you want to do?
• Do you seek attention by being sick, upset or unable? Did your parents only give you the attention you desired when you were really suffering?
• Do you feel wrongly accused, misunderstood or like a failure because someone else does not approve of you?
• Do you expect to fail?
• Are you afraid to commit to do something because you feel you will not follow through?
• Do you feel apathetic and uninspired because you do not feel anything you do will make a difference?
• Are you waiting for someone to ask you, notice you or invite you?
• Are you wishing you were treated with more respect and received more recognition?
• Do you blame someone for what you have or don’t have right now?
• Do you feel anything in your life, your health, cashflow, body, past…anything limits you and keeps you from having, doing and being what you truly want?

How many yes’s?

OK…well if you answered ‘yes’ to even ONE of those questions, you will benefit from my 90 minute class on Thursday April 9th…and best of all , it is only $19.97! Imagine transforming all that into personal power, energy,clarity, inner peace, wealth and happiness! Yes, any of these feelings and much more is caused by victim energy or what I call the ‘Victim Vibe’. You do not have to be immersed in a ‘poor me’ attitude or totally unsuccessful in life to still have some victim vibe running through your thoughts, beliefs and system.

My new Transform your life Class series kicks on April 9th with “Escape the Victim Vibe”. You will find out how pervasive this vibration is in our thoughts, beliefs, our bodies and our bank accounts….even in our government and justice system. It is reinforced in our media, by lawyers, by friends and family. It is all around us, and it is devastating to our ability to create and enjoy the life of our dreams.

There are rich people who still feel wronged and angry at a past event or persons, therefore do not have inner peace or true joy. There are thin people who still have body issues and feel not good enough. There are happy people who still have not found love or wealth.  You do not have to feel like a victim in every area of your life in order to be affected by the victim vibe. But I can promise you that whatever is not working in your life, is definitely affected by this energy of being a victim and not claiming our power and responsibility.

When we let anything at all make us feel like someone or something outside ourselves is preventing us from having what we want, we still have the victim vibe flowing thru us. We all have the victim vibe, it is an energy we took on as children and have never let go of. Even people who feel very confident and successful on some areas have other areas that do not work and they feel less than in.

We are 100% responsible for our lives. For how we feel, what we see and attract and if we let ourselves receive and enjoy what is being given to us. Are you ready to change that and claim your power to create your life the way you want? Read more here

Join the transform your Life: Escape the Victim Vibe class now! You get the audio too! Only $19.97!

Dealing with a Passive aggressive personality?

As I told you yesterday, I finalized my divorce after 3 long years. The supposedly ‘amicable’ event took a horrible turn about one year after our separation. I asked for the separation, I had been married for 21 years at that point and it had become so challenging I barely could stand to be in the same house. We did not yell, or fight…. he is a passive aggressive person. It is bizarre, if you have ever experienced, (and realized it) being with a passive aggressive person.

Hale Dwoskin at the sedona method says: “People who are passive-aggressive appear on the outside to agree and get along with others. In reality, however, they passively resist them, and become increasingly hostile and angry in the process.” This is exactly what I experienced. He always wanted to appear like the “good guy”, and pointed it out all the time.

The strange thing is you really think you are nuts sometimes. They never think anyone ever treats them well and are always saying “look at all I do for you”, yet you feel the true resentment coming out of them. It took me years and years to figure out that he was depressed and passive aggressive. I would constantly try to make him happy, lift him up and carry the mood. If you have ever tried to please other people, it is exhausting. I had done this with my parents for most of my life as well. It is never good enough, never. You aren’t here to please others, and you can never do it.

Hale goes on to explain: “Because someone who is passive-aggressive is internally angry, but hides it on the outside, it can be very challenging to overcome in a relationship.” Yes, indeed. No matter how many times I asked what is wrong, I never got an honest answer.

“Someone who is passive-aggressive is often acting covertly to act out their resistance and anger — and this makes it more difficult for them and others to deal with.” Hale continues.

So my “Inspired Action” for today is: Stop trying to please other people. Do not change who you are for them and do not take responsibility for their emotions. It was interesting that when he finally agreed to go to counseling, the counselor would ask me (in our one on one sessions) “why don’t you tell him how you feel?”. I told him I never wanted to do anything to make him more angry so I walked around “on eggshells” for years. Even though his anger was passive, it always felt like he was throwing daggers at me from his solar plexus as I crossed the room. He would intentionally not do things if he knew I wanted or needed it. I bought curtains that sat there waiting for him to put them up for 3 years!

What was the therapists answer? “Well you just have to let him react any way he is going to react, that is his choice, but it should never stop you from honestly expressing yourself”.

I say the same to you now. Let go of feeling responsible for others feelings and reactions, and give yourself permission to express yourself honestly and authentically. Know you have to be true to you, and act in a manner that expresses your true inner beauty. You are responsible for yourself, so take back your power.

“If you are in a relationship with someone who is always resisting your desires or needs in this way, you should decide whether the relationship is worth keeping.” Hale Dwoskin.

It took me many long years to realize what I was in, and what to do about it. It took more years to legally get out of the relationship. I wish I knew then what I know now. If I had valued myself more, if I had taken responsibility only for my emotions and not others, I would have changed my life much sooner. You can, do it now.

Finally Hale says: “…let go of the anger it brings up inside of you. You should also draw up your own boundaries — such as only meeting with them when absolutely necessary — and not allow the person to cross them or draw you in to a fight.”

Believe you are worth positive, uplifting, loving relationships, and you can do whatever you need to do to change your current situation. Try “Joyful Creating”…and create what you really want from your real power, the power inside of you. Choose love, joy and bliss. Since all possibilities are all around us at all times, it is a matter of believing you desreve it, and choosing to allow it in. You can do it. Let me know how I can help.