Ignite the fire of the life you desire

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OK, well recently my intent to co-create products with other fascinating people has drawn to me a man many are saying will be the next Tony Robbins! I thought this might be something that you would be interested in. There is going to be a fire walk along with a really amazing personal empowerment type seminar called “Unleashing Your Inner Fire”? with the opportunity have some profound personal breakthroughs Saturday, January 30^th 3-10pm at the Monarch Event Center in Austin, TX.

Here’?s a little short snippet about it:

Are you up to having a few lasting breakthroughs in any of the areas of life where you are currently being held back? Is there a you inside that is screaming to come out and be fully self-expressed without fear of being judged? Is there a you that you never get to be?

Then we have the thing for you!!

Unleashing Your Inner Fire and Igniting The Fire Of The Life You Desire : Firewalk & Seminar

Journey with us through the fire, and you’ll discover an exhilarating world where anything is possible. In this one day event, using Performance Activation Technologies, you’ll be guided through overcoming your fears, building your inner strength and finally, after a calm and confident walk across the red-hot coals, claiming the life of your dreams on the other side! You will profoundly understand that you can do anything you want.

Lack motivation? Setbacks? What to do…

I coach people who want to change their life, their income, their happiness and their wealth vibe. Whenever we decide to make major changes in our life we encounter resistance. That is just the way it is. We have ingrained habits, automatic reactions, thoughts and feelings and deeply grooved neural pathways that all support what we now desire to change. It does not just up and fly out the door the second you decide to change. I wish it did, believe me! The best way to think of it, so you do not get frustrated and lose momentum and passion, is to simply see it as if you were learning a whole new subject, music insrtrument, job skill or sport. It is just the same, you are installing new ideas, thoughts, feelings, skills and ways of BEing. If you look at it this way, you can go into it knowing it will take a little time, maybe not long, but at least a little and effort, focus or practice. You may get frustrated, but since your intent is to learn it, then you simply get up and try again, over and over till you get it down.

Here is part of an email coaching session with a coaching client who is dealing with setbacks, lack of energy, procrastination after major progress and a perceived business set back. I think most people can relate to feeling like “I guess I am afraid it will take too long…that I may as well give up now and just be happy with my job…”

“…. So in the meantime, remember when you make any changes to your life that are major, even small ones sometimes too, it is a process of changing habits, thoughts, and neural pathways in your brain. Your ego and other internal systems, that have operated the same way for a long time, are designed to keep you ’safe’ by keeping you the same/stuck.  Your disappointment with the smoke shop simply dulled your energy and the other family events going on appeared to be also pulling you back.

Similar to parts of you, your family and those close to you will have to adapt to your changes and most people do not like change, in you or anything. This is why we must listen to our own inner voice and move on based on what is within us, not on what is outside of us, even those we love. You must realize that as you change and embrace your power, some people will not like it, but it is just energy and you will begin to attract new people who match the new you based on the new vibrations you are sending out.  Often people do not make the changes they really want in their lives because it feels, initially, that all the forces within them and around them are holding them back and the breakthrough seems harder than it is.
Good news! This is part of the transformation, and the reality is this feeling of being stuck is only skin deep. The key is to choose your new vibrations (thoughts, feelings, reality, beliefs, attitudes…) and keep steady to it, no matter what. Tell yourself that there is nothing more important that staying focused on who you are becoming and what you want and do your best to not let the other stuff distract you.
All the feelings you describe below are easier to understand if you look at it like a little kid having a temper tantrum… that is kind of what your ego and current state are doing to keep you stuck. “Why bother”, “it will be too much work”, “it will never work”, these kinds of things are the limiting beliefs talking. Procrastination is also fear of failure or success. I feel you are having more of a fear of success process. This usually goes something like this: “Why am I working so hard, nothing works out for me anyway. I’ll probably do all this and still get nothing for it. And what is I do get successful Then I have to work hard all the time, and people will expect things from me, I am fin the way I am now, no I am not happy, but how do I know I will really  be any happier when I do all this. What is I succedd and people want money from me? What is I make money and lose it? What if the clients I am trying to get don’t like what I do, or get mad, or cancel… I will look bad and be embarrassed. It is easier if I just don;lt put my self out there and get noticed. I mean I have to contact all these people and what if they say no, and don’t like what I have. It;s all just a waste of time, I am fooling myself thinking things can get better…” and so on…

You know you want more, and there is no going back now, you have tasted a happier life. There is a phase where it feels to hard to go forward and not possible to go back, and that is natural. It is possible for you to have more money and time and anything else you want. Think of this as if you are learning a new job, a music instrument or game. You have to study it, practice, look at your results, practice more keep reminding yourself of this ‘new’ way of being and so on.
You are NOT being lazy, that is a self defeating thought that is not you, it is the resistance. All the thoughts are. You just have to do whatever you can, moment by moment, day by day, to stay focused on your end goal, the feelings of happiness and inner peace you will feel when you have extra income and extra time. Each day it becomes easier and more habituated, until one day you will naturally think and feel this way and just go about your day like this.
It can be easier when you have someone who holds your dream as well, and yet , in truth, you are the one who makes it happen. So if you do not have anyone who ‘gets’ this, no worries, I am here and befriend yourself. Talk to yourself and help yourself, step by step to take a little action doing what you know you want to do to get the business going.
To get back on track simply be gentle with yourself, and to take small steps till your energy and emotions shift to more positive ones. The key is not to beat yourself up and feel guilty because you got off track and disappointed. This is a waste. So do what you can to not indulge in the feelings and thoughts like this. When you feel yourself thinking this way and feeling low or your energy dropping, stop and close your eyes. Take a breath and step back from yourself. Watch the thoughts and feelings move by in front of you like a stream, just be there. Allow the emotions to subside. Make sure you do not grab hold of any of them. By this I mean if you ’see’ the thought “am I lazy? What’s wrong with me?” be aware not to ‘grab’ it and run with it and start saying more thing like “Yea, I know and I always will be and it won’t change and why do I bother…”… you see? Separate yourself from the stream of depleting thoughts  and let them keep moving by, do not dive into them and go deeper. You may have to stop yourself a few times and redirect yourself back to watching instead of participating. This is normal, just keep stepping back, over and over till you can sit and watch. Once the feelings are not as intense,  then you can start to ask yourself this:
“This is not the real me, the real me is joy, prosperity, happiness, energy. This is just the old habits talking, and I can change those. Now I choose to feel I can do it, I choose to focus on the great life waiting for me just around the corner. Now I feel more calm, and I am feeling like the storm has passed and that is good, cause now I can look out with a clear view again and focus on the way I know my life can be, really is and will be shortly. I am in control of my thoughts and feelings, and I now choose energy, focus, happoiness….” you get the point, just slowly talk yourself up into a better feeling. It is not possible to accomplish when we feel low and defeated. So don’t try to make major changes when you feel like that, first allow the thoughts and feeling to move through you (do not supress or ignore them too long, as they get stuck, allow them to move through you ). Once the wave is over, you can begin to focus on feeling better,
When things do not go the way we hope, it simply means there is something better coming… hold the framework of “everything is an opportunity : firmly in your mine. Decide that even though the evidence showing up may not yet reflect this, that you KNOW, you BELIEVE, it is in the process of being created and delivered to you.  Use the experience to see new ways of doing things, and ask ‘what can I do in this situation next time that will best create the outcome I desire”.
For now I would think of things that make you feel good and do them, pick your energy up and choose one thing to focus on that will be easy to do and you will feel good when it is done. Once you accomplish it, write it in your proof journal (if you have one look back at your past successes and read them, very inspiring!) and then do a small celebration, go have ice cream or take a nap or whatever you like best. Then choose one more thing… think of it like you fell down a canyon and you simply have to climb back to the top and continue on, it is just energy and energy changes all the time!
Decide to adopt the attitude “Nothing can stop me from uncovering my dreams and living my abundant happy life, and this is just a bump on the road!”  Meditate, visualize your goals and then set a date to work on your … most important idea…. for 10 minutes only, just sit down and do something… then again….
Love, Nan”

Create Your Reality News #10

Happy day to you all!

I am overjoyed to wish you a happy passion day, because to me, living your passion is what life is all about. Living with it, in it and inspiring others to live theirs as well! Like I said in my email today :”I am excited to tell you all about how you can ignite your passion and uncover your purpose! Isn’t that what we all want? Well, that and to be happy…yet that is what makes us happy, at the deepest level!”

So let’s get to it!

~ International Passion day is here! See the movie!

~ Law of attraction plain and simple now available

~ Discover your purpose and passion and create it with ease!

~ Last day for sale prices on coaching…act now!

International Passion Day is Today!

What a fantastic idea i think this is! What is more fun, more exhilarating than passion? We have all felt it, we all yearn to feel it again! And, I believe, we are all meant to live our passions freely, day to day, not once in a great while!

Well, not only is today declared passion day, and the book “The Passion Test” is being released in paperback with tons of cool bonuses (including one from me on “Getting Ego on Your Side”)… Chris and Janet Attwood, the authors, have set a high  goal which I plan to assist them in; to inspire at least five million people to take action to follow their passions and begin living their life purpose!

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So Chris and Janet have created an eye-opening movie presentation to tantalize you and celebrate International Passion Day.

Take the time to review the wonderful promotion of the book, but then scroll down the page to “Passion Day Movie” and take four minutes to watch this remarkable video presentation. It will inspire and uplift you, and it will also provoke you to think about where you are in your life, and where you could be.

And get my “Getting Ego on Your Side” Audio FREE1

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Law of attraction plain and simple:

I am very excited to share some great news with you about a special event called The Great Inner Peace and Extraordinary Living Give-Away. You see, my friend Sonia Ricotti has brought together a large number of success experts and bestselling authors from around the globe to promote her newest book, The Law of Attraction, Plain and Simple: Create the Extraordinary Life That You Deserve.

To participate, you only need to purchase a copy of her book online today and then you will receive more than

One of which is my ebook, “Unlock the door to all you desire!” Find out all you need to know at http://www.leadoutloud.ca/lawofattraction/.

How do you find your purpose when you can’t even find time to read a book?

I hear a lot of people say they are so busy, kids, work, bills, house…it all gets overwhelming. And yet, so many of us hear the calling of our inner voice saying “there’s more”…if you have wondered what life is about, or wanted more….if you have felt there must be a easier and more fun way to create what you want, be happy, make money, lose weight or find the love of your life, then you deserve to discover the immense world within you.

You have so much support right inside you, all the time. Most of us have never learned how to hear it, tap into it. You have a “team” of energies that are there just for you! They want to help, they do, the best they can…but imagine if you could communicate with them, find out why you find it hard to do certain things, or why you feel sad, angry or lonely. Imagine if you could talk to your energy team and align with them  so that you would all be focused in the same direction, working towards what you truly want, in exactly the way you want it? What if you could blast away the pain and the past and operate from a whole new set of beliefs?

This is exactly what I do with my coaching clients (see next section and get signed up today for the sale price!) AND what we are going to do in the upcoming FreethPowerinYou.com class.

If you go now, you can  hear a one hour audio on how to do this yourself and all about what we will do in the class and more. You will find it will benefit you greatly, and allow you to feeel whole again, connected with yourself and you will feel such inner peace and power. Please check it out, I know it will be such a gift to you!

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Today, September 30th, is the last day to get coaching sessions for only $97!

As I have been saying, the realizations, shifts, releasing and clarity that you can gain from coaching is limitless. I have so much fulfillment working with people and watching them breakthrough. Physical healing, emotional peace, mental clarity and discovering your purpose are only a few things that results form these sessions.

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If you resonate with this at all, check it out, I am honored and open to be here for you!