Betrayal

“Dear Nan, I was 22 yrs old when I was devastated to find out that my father had betrayed me. My parents divorced when I was 14 & my father remarried someone who was jealous of me (and I much later found out was an alcoholic) and needless to say I never felt comfortable around her from the first moment I saw her. Ultimately, my father ended up divorcing her but not before OUR relationship had been damaged. He had forged my signature to allow himself to cash in on an estate check that was written out to me as one of the beneficiaries. It took me 13 yrs of estrangement to be able to try and start over. I had found out that the situation he was in at the time caused him to be between a rock and a hard place - thus his choice to betray me however was far from being the right thing to do about it. He has been in my life now for the past 5 yrs and has never remarried. I believe I have forgiven him, but how can I be really sure? Thank you for all of your time and help, it is so appreciated.”

Sound familiar? Most everyone has felt betrayed at some time in life. In a way it is inevitable. We place a lot of emotional energy on hoping or thinking that someone has our best interests at heart and will always honor them in just the way we feel they should. Well, when ever we put our expectations on the actions of another person, we are set up for a potential disappointment. No one can keep your best interests at the forefront of their mind and actions all the time. Yes, people do things that are not loving and kind, but there are about them, not us, even though it feels so deeply painful! Often people are hurt and confused themselves and they lash out at those closest to them.  I did a one and a half hour healing on Betrayal this last Thursday on my Global Healing call (get it at IntendGlobalhealing.com). That was one clients question for the call . I have also created a Transformational Essence to assist in releasing this. See Escape the Victim Vibe at http://transformationalessences.com/

The definition of betrayal in the dictionary is:

1.      to deliver or expose to an enemy by treachery or disloyalty: Benedict Arnold betrayed his country.
2.     to be unfaithful in guarding, maintaining, or fulfilling: to betray a trust.
3.     to disappoint the hopes or expectations of; be disloyal to: to betray one’s friends.
4.     to reveal or disclose in violation of confidence: to betray a secret.
5.     to reveal unconsciously (something one would preferably conceal): Her nervousness betrays her insecurity.
6.     to show or exhibit; reveal; disclose: an unfeeling remark that betrays his lack of concern.
7.     to deceive, misguide, or corrupt: a young lawyer betrayed by political ambitions into irreparable folly.
8.     to seduce and desert.

That last one really hits me. When I work with clients on money and wealth issues, we reveal their ‘money mask’. We make money into a person in our minds and seeing what they look and act like based on the limiting beliefs and negative emotions they hold around money. Mine ‘false money’ was an interesting, intelligent, handsome European man in a sexy sports car, very well dressed. He wooed me and seduced me and poured gifts on me. Then he would suddenly turn his back on me and disappear. He would ’seduce and desert’. Betrayed by money! Betrayal is not just reserved for people. We also feel betrayed by God, by the government, by luck, by all manner of circumstances. Feeling betrayed triggers memories and meanings and feelings that can knock us off our center and make us feel as if we are drowning. This sudden depletion of energy is quite intense. We literally experience shock. Shock reverberates throughout our system in a powerful way and stays in our system without some way of intentionally releasing it. When an event occurs that reminds us of the past betrayal, it comes to the surface quickly and our body reacts. It is important to get the shock out of your system… this is one thing the Transformational Essence does. It also has strength, courage, protection and more (see below). It can help you release and process your feelings of betrayal.

Although betrayal can knock us off center and be draining, it is not as thick and all powerful as it feels. Just below the surface, a very thin surface, is the freedom. When we experience  betrayal (which is in fact a form of grief), we want someone else to step in and take over, we feel defeated, depleted. Our minds fog up and are full of repetitive thoughts that play the pictures of pain over and over. Our focus is on how much we hurt. Our energy is so contracted that we feel unable to function.

We need to get unstuck. Allow the feelings to move thru us, dive deeper into them and release them till you get to some peace.  Get out of the repetitive and constant state of pain.

It is coming up because you are ready to release it! So allow the oldest layers of betrayal to come up, and you can get out of the feeling of drowning.

Solutions:

• take back your power
• Re-energize: follow your energy and reel it back in
• Release the need to depend on others, find your inner strength
• Transform your need for approval: let others do what they do and know it has nothing to do with you, it is there own stuff
• *Surround self with light or other visual that keeps your energy protected form the negative energy of others.
• Develop the quality of detachment
• Let go of the need for others to recognize and apologize for what they did. Do not let your happiness depend on someone elses actions, or change.
• Cultivate courage: to stand up for yourself, to be what and who you desire, to let go of people in your life that hurt and dono respect you…

Resources:

1. Escape the Victim Vibe 2 hour class on Audio only $19.97
   
2. Escape the Victim Vibe Essence only $25.00 till May 18th
   
3. Global Healing Call on Betrayal Free

What is our end result desire? Be free to choose, feel safe and secure, tuned in to our own strength and knowing our own capabilities. Accessing and knowing our own strength, courage, self love, ability to protect ourselves and total faith in ourselves.

New Transformational Essence! Escape the Victim Vibe: reaccess personal power

If you feel like a victim, feel betrayed, tend to blame others, complain and feel like you have no control over your life, this essence is for you! In my class (available on audio at createyourownrealitynow.com under Transform your Life Classes) we do processes to uproot and release the energies and emotions that create the feeling of being a victim, being betrayed and abandoned. This essence includes the essences of:

1. The Quality of Detachment: bathes in detachment so clarity and focus can be maintained
2. Command : Strengthen: strengthens you to feel capable, strong and ‘can do!”
3. Courage: The original vibration of courage activates your inner courage vibe
4. Protection: protects you on many levels to keep negative energies from affecting you
5. Shock: shock in your system from event or fear needs ot be released
6. Flower Essence: Broccoli: for maintaining the power balance when you perceive you are under seige or attck form outside. Stabilizes body/soul unit so you won’t detach, scatter and close down
7. Flower Essence: Dill: helps you reclaim power balance you have released to others. Victimization.

$31.00 Special till May 18th: $25.00

Written by Nan Akasha


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