September Newsletter Create Your Life Now

Back to School Specials!

Including $80 off coaching!!

I will be on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/stacey_zzzz.

September 12th 2008 at 8pm PST

My twin girls, Emily and Sierra just started Junior School today and I am experiencing so many emotions! The ones that want them to have fun and be themselves, the ones that are amazed they are so big and grown up and the ones that miss them now they will be gone all day again! Having kids is such a roller coaster! I always say it is the best and the worst of everything! There is little that brings the deep joys and love that you have for your kids, and little that frustrates as much as some things they say or do! Loving someone so much, unconditionally, is an experience that has given me so much growth and so much love. It is being “forged by fire” as one of my friends says, you have no choice, you can’t put them on hold, you just have to keep going!

I guess for me the biggest challenge and biggest thrill is letting them be who they are, trusting them to follow their inner guidance and be here as a guide and loving presence. Having had very structured, critical and intellectual parents, I have no role model to parent the way I feel is best in my soul. Loving someone and still letting them be who they are, even if it makes no sense to you takes inner discipline and is a truly expanding experience.

In the spirit of the start of school, here are some wonderful resources for your family and you:

1. My “Meditation for Kids” program is now available and ON SALE for only $9.97! I will be adding some audio meditations to go with it and the price will be going up, so get it now! If you do buy it now, you will get an offer to get the audio meditations when they are ready for a discount, so don’t worry you won’t miss out!!

2. I recently blogged about a wonderful organization that does amazing work with kids and people called “Difference Makers International”. They are a non-profit educational organization, dedicated to helping children of all ages reach their highest potential. See my blog “Who I am Makes A Difference”

3.My new audio Clearing called “Clearing your Negative Relationship with Ego” is on sale right now for only $9.97! If you purchase it now, you will get the full package of audios of which this is part 1, called “Getting Ego on Your Side” for less than half price! You only have about a week to get this deal, so start right now shattering your “glass wall” between your ego and higher self and get all your energies moving in the same direction!

4. My friend Rhonda Ryder does amazing work with parents who want to understand how to best use Law of Attraction to raise their kids. She has some really great interviews, including some with stars of the movie “The Secret”. Check her out at kidsawakening.com and get in tune with your kids in a natural way! You get a Free Guide, “The Seven Secrets of Sharing The Law of Attraction With Kids and Teens”!

5. Finally I have a very special offer for  you! I am offering a HUGE discount on my coaching for September only (anything you book in September). $80 off per session!!!

Ultimate awareness coaching can help you clear limiting beliefs and blocks in any area of your life. It can help you discover your authentic self, your true potential and your immense personal power. Clearing energy blocks, memories and thought patterns that no longer serve you and who you have become. NEW: sessions can include a discussion with your ego, which cuts right through all the guessing and gets your ego to align with what you want and stop the constant battle to change and do what you want. Release the fear and doubt and go for what you want and know you deserve right now!

You can discuss and process any area of your life, so if you have family issues, or you want to find a soul mate, if you are stuck around money and career or if you are grieving a loss of any kind.

One hour sessions are powerful, and lazer focused on exactly what you want. It is designed to open and clear your energy field so you can tune in to your own inner guidance and expand your awareness of your true self!

Check out my coaching here and sign up now, this is almost half price!!

Also get on my email list so you don’t miss the weekly     “Your Inner Voice is Whispering…” emails!

Here is a recent blog about it and a comment from a subscriber: “Hi Nan,Thank you. Really enjoyed your email and post. Very calming. Just what I needed today. See, it was right in front of me. You have a gift to write these hypnotic, calming words! Rhonda”

The Powerful  Spirit of Money courses are available, the breakthroughs continue as we wrap up the small group coaching next week! It has been another amazing ride. You can get the full 8 session course or the 90 minute integration on audio now. They will blow your socks off, nothing else out there has ever been presented like this and it’s straight from source! One tool or clearing alone will completely change your experience with money!

Why not give yourself the gift of joining forces with money and building your support team that will open the flood gates to your wealth? You also get “Reboot Your Inner Money Machine” audio activation FREE, $39.97 plus more! You will be amazed!

Recent Blogs you may want to check out include:

Blogs on the aligning with your ego: Clearing the Negative Realtionship with Your Ego, Aligning Your Ego and Spirit

Blogs on the beauty of you and life: the infinite beauty of life, You are so beautiful, follow the luminescent glow, move into the fullness of your true identity

Blogs on Money and Spirit alignment and flow: money, law of attraction & the power of your thoughts

, “at last breaking through past relationship to money prison”, If you are interested in the photo at the top of the log it is a picture I took of an impressionist painting from Musee D’Orsay in Paris, it make me think of my twin girls!

Are you going to accept the good you are offered or not?

Louise Hay, she is a miracle! I really respect and love her, her book saved my life, and I plan to meet her, have her publish my books…she said to Joe Vitale’s trainer recently:

Louise offered him a book from her private library, he said “you don’ t have to do that”. “I know I don’t have to do it”, Louise countered, smiling. “Are you just going to dismiss the good you are offered?”

How many times have we dismissed the good we are offered, consciously or not? How often have you not done, accepted or asked for what you really want. How often has the Universe, God, your higher self…showed up with what you love on a silver platter and you said no? Or perhaps you were too busy worrying, feeling not good enough or even feeling sorry for yourself, that you never get what you want. Lost in memories or pain we are not in the moment, and we miss opportunities the Universe has lined up for us, over and over…

I know it has happened to me, never again though…how about you?

You are so beautiful

I wrote this to my beloved, Chris, the other morning when I was up to take my kids to school and he was still sleeping. After the emotions of taking them to the first say of Junior school (I have twins girls) I came home and sat in the silence and felt my love for him as he slept. I wanted to share it, because in reality, this is true for us all.

So this is dedicated to all of you, thanks for listening and making the world a more a beautiful place!

“You are so beautiful, so full of light and life
Your beauty shines so brightly and enlightens me each moment you are near
Your love is so deep and soft, it encompasses me

like warm silk, wrapped around me and infusing me
Your smile fills my heart with joy,
Your kindness lifts me up and beings sunshine to my days
Life with you is so beautiful and you are the sun that fills it with your beauty
Bless you for sharing all you are with me, I am truly honored and grateful!”
All my love, Nan

Clearing the Negative Relationship with your Ego

Today I recorded a new audio clearing. It is amazing! It is “Clearing the Negative Relationship with your Ego” and it is part of a set of audios on clearing, commmunicating with and wokring in uinison with your ego.

It is about what we discussed yesterday, aligning your ego and higher self. This has been such a fun and empowering journey, and my co-creator in The Spirit of Money, Amy Scott Grant has a wonderful blog about how she is using this idea for herself and her clients as well. Check out her article to get some tips on how to have a discussion with your ego, like we did in our Spirit of Money group coaching last week.

I am going to offer this clearing audio today for only $9.79…the whole set will be out next week and you will be able to upgrade to it for a discounted price…so get started now by going here (you can hear a sample as well)

Get started clearing your relationship with your ego and get on a path of united forces towards manifesting your dreams!

Aligning your ego and spirit

Does that sound weird? Aligning two parts of you that seem from the outside to be so different? Well, doesn’t it make sense though? Wouldn’t you like everything you do to be easier and more fun?

Well think about it, if you got your ego to be your ally, like we talked about in last week’s blog “When you are at war with something, you feed it”, you do not have to battle your inner talk, or suppress overwhelming fear, fight procrastination or struggle with addictions! Your ego is a necessary part of you, it is what allows you to function in the 3-D reality within which we experience this life. If you were still just pure spirit, you would not be able to drive a car, figure your bill, dial a phone or write a novel. Your ego or personality, is not your enemy, it is designed to help you experience life here. However, we were never taught how to stay connected to who we truly are and use he ego for what it is good at. Most people are totally controlled by their ego’s.

There are tons of books and courses on how to control, suppress, annihilate, ignore or trick the ego. Some of these can be used with some success. However, what about cooperation? Isn’t it much more exciting to get someone won over to your team and have their skills and work added to your own than fight them?

Well, in Spirit of Money small group coaching we are doing some amazing things with working with your ego! Here are a few steps towards getting your ego aligned with your spirit or higher self, thus making it so much easier to change and release what no longer serves you and focus on what you want.

1. Understand your ego’s purpose. The ego is incredibly strong and committed, it will not back down off it’s ‘assignment’: keeping you safe, in whatever way it has been told by your choices and beliefs it needs to. Even if unpleasant to you, strangely enough.

2. Find our what your ego wants.

3. Find out why your ego does what it does, and then change the motivation,

4. Have a discussion with your ego, and see if it will be willing to listen that it can accomplish it’s job just as well or better by changing some of its programs and methods tobe ones that coincide with what your inner self wants. You will not be able to convince it to stop, or lay off, so be aware that it does not trust you. That is part of it’s job.

5. Get an agreement with your ego and then start working together for what you want most!

If you are interested in more on this powerful technique, let me know, there will be some powerful things coming out on this soon!

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Who I am makes a difference

Difference Makers International, is a truly inspiring project and website. I am telling you about it today, because I just discovered it and was really pleased! I spent my childhood trying to make everyone happy, because I wanted happy, loving and appreciative people around me. It was a never ending battle so to speak. I have realized over time that I am the only one that can change myself and I cannot change others. However, I can be an example of love, joy and happiness. I can appreciate the people around me and uplift and empower them. I can;t control if they decide to be happy, but I know that what I do is from a loving and empowering space, and not from a critical and judgmental space, like I lived in. I get to live my dream of making a happier more loving world through teaching and coaching and showing people their beauty, value and power.

“Sparky” Bridges embraces the dream she had as a little girl that she would make this a more loving world and make dreams come true through the vehicle of a simple blue ribbon that says “Who I Am Makes A Difference.” ™

Helice “Sparky” Bridges is the Founder and Creator of Difference Makers International, www.blueribbons.org, an educational organization that empowers kids and people of all ages to lead extraordinary lives one kid, one community, one nation at a time.

Difference Makers International’s programs have impacted over 30 million people worldwide, averting teen suicides, ending bullying, enhancing academic excellence, building positive relationships and making dreams come true.

In 1983, Sparky founded Difference Makers International, a non-profit educational organization, dedicated to helping children of all ages reach their highest potential. Sparky’s vision is that every child will grow up in a safe, supportive and nurturing environment in which they will know that who they are makes a difference.

Check it out, and make a difference in your life today. Then go out and tell someone in your life how much they mean to you, it will spread and being you immense joy. And that’s all we all want anyway!

Difference Makers International

If you’re at war with something, you keep it alive

“if you’re at war with something, you keep it alive.

“..when you’re at war with the mind… that’s food for the mind.” Hale Dwoskin

Last night on the Spirit of Money group Coaching call we discussed the most amazing new way to align your whole self and get ALL of you moving in the same direction!

You are a creator, your true, higher, source self , the part of you that feels good when all is well, and wants peace, harmony and ease. The biggest part of you often shows itself less than the other parts, because we are usually not taught to live from that, we live through the mind and Ego/personality. Knowing how powerful you are will help you create easier, faster and more precisely, yet aligning your higher self with your ego is even more powerful!

It’s not about the actions you take. It’s about “who you’re being” while you’re taking the actions that matters. Who you are being is about being aligned within yourself and then aligning yourself with what you want (money, love, travel, friends etc). These 2 parts of you are usually in opposition because we either are slaves to our ego’s (controlled by our minds and fears and not able to act, only react) or we fight it, fear it or try to get rid of and not notice our Ego. There are all kinds of self help books and programs that teach how to ignore, repress or remove the ego. I have had some success with some of them. Certainly I am find meditation and being in charge of your thoughts and emotions helpful. Yet the struggle is constant, as Eckart Tolle says you can never fight or get rid of your ego.

Ego and personality are vital to your experience in this dimension, you have to have it to function here, it is your tool of complexity, your ability to do logic, complex, functioning, graphs, schedules, concepts, numbers, man made things and so on. You are meant to use it as a powerful tool, to experience through the ego, but not to live by it. Ego’s are fearful and judgmental, labeling and are here to protect you so the want to keep you from changing. They want to keep you safe and therefore stuck. Ego is the part that says “respect me, I am important, I am going to keep you safe no matter what, so look out, watvh out, don’t do that…”

Your higher self is connected to all and knows it, it knows and feels that life is simple and beautiful, and wonderful. It is the part of you that knows it is able to create anything and can.

Being at war with your ego to try to make peace within you, find happiness and manifest money, love and everythign else you want, only creates more resistence. Your ego and mind become more resolute when you try to change or resist them. SO we have millions who never see change int he way they want, it is just too hard.

Try making an ally out of your ego. You will not convince it to relax, take a vacation or abandon it’s mission. You can however, see if it will alter how it accomplishes it’s mission and work with you!!! Stay tuned for more!!

do whatever you want

Do whatever you want, be true to yourself, do not worry about anything but how you feel and follow your best feelings…

Does that statement bother you in any way? If so, it’s time to really look at what you think, believe, and why. WHo told you to put everyone else first? Why is that good? What would happen if you only thought of yourself first? Followed your passion?

I have used a saying for years; “Do what ever you want, as long as you harm no one else”…or some version of that. Most people who have freed their minds from believing that you have to follow all kinds of rules to be good enough to deserve anything say this…and yet…I blew that one out of the water recently too!

It can be hard to let go of the things we were taught were “right”…and yet, to the divine, there are no rules, no right or wrong, only you and expansion.

I re-read “Illusions” recently and there is a part where he discusses this concept, the man says this, and the ‘teacher’ says that’s a lie.

It pushed my buttons, but when i thought it through, let it move through me, again i realized it was another layer of judgment.  YOu can;t really do that, because it is in your nature to defend yourself, and it is in your nature to do what youneed to survive, and live. You do things that hurt others every day. My parents do not like what I say or do, and it hurts them, but I no longer let that stop me being who I am. They choose to be hurt, I actually do not hurt them, and yet, if you followed that creed, you would indeed, be spending all day trying to please everyone, because there is always going to be someone who does not like what you say, do , are….whether it is emotional, physical or mental, you “harm/hurt” others all the time and you do not even know it. There is alwasy someon who opposes yo uin theory, thought or deed.

So, put yourself first, that is why you are here, to experience life in YOUR unique way, the way no one else can, and in doing that you contribute more to the Universe, to Source, to Divine, than you ever could by trying to please others and run around and be ‘good’, ‘nice’, ‘right’ ‘proper’…..

Instead make your heart sing and see the wonder that arises all around you!

handle anything that comes up and turn it into something good

I could not have said this better, and was planning something similar, so instead I am sharing an email from my friend Rhonda Ryder at http://www.kidsawakening.com

Check it out and her website too! Wonderful things are everywhere! and see my recent blog on Going for Gold in your life

“… I watched an interview with Michael Phelps after he won his eighth Olympic Gold Medal, making him the Olympic athlete winning the most Gold Medals in history.
Phelps was asked, “What do you think separates the people who are merely gifted from those like you who in this instance, won?”

Here’s what he said…
“For me when I watch other sports, when I watch Tiger Woods, when I watch [tennis player] Roger Federer, when I watch [tennis player] Rafael Nadal, the best athletes can compete under any circumstances.  No matter what it is, no matter what the pressure, you can always overcome whatever is put in your way.”

Notice that Michael didn’t say he worked harder than everybody else or he was in better shape or had a better strategy than his competitors.
Instead, he explained how he does not allow outer circumstances to knock him off his game.
How many of us can say that???
How many times do I hear people complaining about circumstances or external pressures preventing them from pursuing their dreams? (I just caught myself doing it last night!)
I also heard Michael’s coach say during another interview,
“It’s Michael’s ability to handle anything that comes up and turn it into something good.”
Turn it into something good.
I think that’s the golden ticket right there.
Gosh, it’s taken me a long time to learn how to “turn my disappointments into something good” on a consistent basis, but it’s made all the difference in the world. That truly is where you begin to see the magic happening right before your very eyes.

I can’t help but think that “being in the moment” and “focusing on the goal” plays a huge part in these athlete’s abilities to excel to such amazing heights.”
Thanks Rhonda, and all the athletes that have followed their hearts and dreams despite obstacles, and societal concensus that you can’t “do that” and succeed. Remember, if you are your true self, and you follow your good feelings, you are always on track.

Are you going to accept the good you are offered or not?

Louise Hay, she is a miracle! I really respect and love her, her book saved my life, and I plean to meet her, have her publish my books…she said to Joe Vitale’s trainer recently:

Louise offered him a book from her private library, he said “you don;t have to do that”. “I know I don’t have to do it”, Louise countered, smiling. “Are you just going to dismiss the good you are offered?”

How many times have we dismissed the good we are offered, consciousbly or not? how often have younot done, accepted or asked for whta you really want. How often has the Universe, God, your higher self…showed up with what you love on a silver platter and you said no? Or perhaps you were too busy worrying, feeling not good enough or even feeling sorry for yourself, that you never get what you want. Lost in memories or pain we are not int he moment, and we miss opportnites the Universe has lined up for us, over and over…

I know it has happened to me, never again though…how about you?

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