Create Your Own Reality Now

“Why is THAT coming up again?! I thought I had cleared that! Sound familiar to anyone?
This could also be called “Dealing with a passive aggressive personality?” #2. That was a blog I did awhile back that someone commented on and as I responded I thought of how that has been a theme in my life recently and thought I would discuss it some more. CLick the title of the blog and read it and the comments.
So, I have been designing my life to be mobile and still be able to run my business and so I am on a 6 week trip in Europe and still am able to ‘work’. How does this completely other topic relate to passive aggressive personalities? I love to travel and experience other people and places. It inspires me, makes me happy and brings out the best in me…usually! However, this trip, since I arrived here I have had strange bouts of depression, fear, worried feelings and this is not at all how I normally am. I am frustrated because I want to be fully present and enjoy the places, people and experiences, and yet I even had a panic attack a few days ago and I have not had one of those in years!
Why? Well, what I have begun to sort out is that I still have repressed anger towards the people in my life who were passive aggressive, critical, judgemental and cruel, despite all the releasing work I have done. For some strange reason, even though they have traveled extensively themselves, and still can, have a lot of money and can do whatever they like, they hate it when I travel. I have allowed this to affect me, in that even when I would take a trip that i wanted to, there was alwasy an underlying gut feeling or wory about them sitting there being mad at me and how it would surface later. It is almost like alittle kid who knows they are not supposed to do something, but just has to and does it anyway. That is how I felt a lot.

I wanted to share some more insights from the people who have taken the Spirit of Money class…which is now selling like hotcakes on audio! ( go to http://bethespiritofmoney.com/) I cannot stress enough what an unusual and completely new way of looking at money this is. I am totally rewiring my own money thoughts, feelings and pathways!

Here’s an email from a class participant and my answer…enjoy and let me know what you would like to hear more of!

“I loved in session #4 where Amy you discussed how it is assumed that we already know everything is ours for the choosing.

Also I loved the phenomenal clearing Nan did. In the meditation I felt very clearly that I had a ball in my chest that was the whole Universe and it just got bigger and bigger and radiated in all directions from my body - it felt so wonderful. I laughed the other day when I found the perfect parking spot and gave thanks - I then realized no wonder I got it as I carry the whole Universe inside me!

I would like to know any ideas you have for my making practical use of both of these new ideas. I was given the gift of the Universe for a reason, i just don’t know how to make best use of it. Thanks.”

Nan: “l Love your experience…and yes, you are the whole Universe, and keeping that thought, concept, fresh in your mind and being is a very powerful. It means you have everything you want, it means you are the creator of your world and it means you have all the resources available to you …now all you have to do is keep that AWARENESS present in your day to day.
Being in the moment is about tuning in to how you feel, who you are, your energy and how it fluctuates. If you keep your awareness just outside of your mind, you will be in the moment, not controlled by the moment.
When you operate/act/think from the space “I have and am everything”, then you operate/act/think differently…and as you do that more and more you trust more and more that great things just show up…and now you are the space- the now - to see them and join them!
Mostly we think we do not get what we want and there is lack because we are so busy worrying that we do not see and feel the awesome opportunities that show up almost every moment of the day! Getting out of your mind, realizing you are not your thoughts, body or even your emotions, you are the driver, the energy, the fuel the spirit behind that and you can be in control of your thoughts, body or even your emotions.
So practical use is to infuse your daily life with this awareness and then enjoy the ride…moment to moment, in the knowing you are the Universe and you are expanding it and can enjoy it every moment. Way fun, huh?!
If you find you are interested in the group coaching we can get into specifics just for you!”

A reminderl we have the Spirit of Money Small Froup Coaching starting on August 14th. This will be truly amazing, because the participants will be able to deal personally with their specific issues. Also we will take working with your personal money management team (which we met in the Living the Spirit of Money: phase of integration” class….yes that is also available on audio now, go to http://bethespiritofmoney.com/integration/ ) to a whole new level! It is going to be a phenomenal ride!

Thanks to everyone who has experienced these classes and is so generous in sharing their powerful experiences…this is soooo fun!

Come join the ride!

How do you handle, approach or ‘feel’ about anger? I was taught it was ‘inappropriate’, so I always felt uncomfortable with it. I rarely had much, thankfully, but when things happened in my life, like my daughter dying, and I had anger, I had no idea what to do about it. In fact I felt worse because I thought I was doing something wrong by feeling anger, so I was stuck between a rock and a hard place!

Over the years i have had many different perspectives on anger. Ignore it, avoid it, let it go and not deal with it, feel bad about it…on and on. Now I am choosing to disempower it (take back my power form it) by seeing it as “just a feeling” and nothing more. No judgement, no attachment, no pushing it away.

Those who hurt others only do so because they fear, they know not how to ‘control’ their own reality, their own thoughts and create their own happiness, and so they try to control, blame and hurt others.
The best we can be and do is to be totally ourselves, and love who we are, cherish our uniqueness and fully realize that we are beautiful, no matter what anyone else says or does.
Removing our focus from the pain, unfairness, hurt, fear and anger that others have and that we have in response to what others do and say, relieves the power.
Feeling the pain or anger fully, allows us to let go of resistance, which means that there are no ‘energy hooks’ in our system for the pain to cling to, attach to. Interestingly enough when we allow ourselves to feel the hurt, anger or fear, it moves, and then transmutes…it cannot cling to us if we do not have any emotion or reaction to it.
I have felt it difficult, in the past, to allow myself to feel these things, fearing that it would make it stronger, and create more pain. Now I realize, when i do not look at it, if I stay too “zen” and calm, letting go the hurt each time it appears, it never really moves on. I have let it deplete me, instead of depleting it.
I would rather let it move through me, feel it fully and then let it go, because then i can move beyond the anger, the pain the apprehension of “what next…?”
I can be more fully free if I allow myself to feel what i feel. I do not have to condone it, agree with it, like it or create any more of it. However, an emoiton is energy, and when we resist it, it does not move, it cannot transform into somehting else…which is what we want it to do.
Transform pain, anger, fear and guilt in to joy and love by allowing it to move through you, be kind and loving to yourself. Tell yourself you are wonderful, and do not add to the experience by feeling stpid or bad that you are feeling anger. Do not judge yourself, or anyone else involved. SImply feel what you feel, and then go do somethign loving and relaxing or fun for yourself.
Once we allow the energy of anger, powerlessness, injustice, frustration, fear of any kind to move through us, we are FREE to move in to any vibration we choose. CHOOSE!!! I love choosing for myself, don’t you?! Well I choose, right now, to always acknowledge my feelings, and experience them quickly and in the moment, so they do not grow, fester and cling to me. I choose to free up my energy I am giving to any negative emotion, person or past experience (or future feared one for that matter!) and I CHOOSE to use my full energy in fun, love, joy and adventure, kindness, creating, spreading light and laughter and self-empowerment!
Come join me now!!!
Love Nan

I encourage you to look into how you deal with conflict, I have found it to be a huge area of growth and strength for me whenever I face a difficult situation and decide to do it with honor and integrity…my integrity, not someone else’s version of it. I recently had a well known “Spiritual teacher” do, yet another, thing that smacks with personal inner weakness. Their decision to not be honest with people because they are “afraid to hurt anyone’s feelings”, and to not respond, communicate or resolve any issues that come up have given me pause to think about this. How can someone claim to teach and practice spiritual growth when they themselves are not even willing to deal honestly and directly with day to day issues and people, even people who love and respect them? I have seen mis-communication, misunderstandings  and hard feelings sprout up over and over around this person…unnecessarily , due to this person’s lack of inner integrity and willingness to stand up and deal honestly with people. It boggles my mind. I do not expect anyone to be perfect, I know I am always in process, changing and growing, and yet i am always interested in seeing where my fears arise and why, clearing what appears as issues and manifests things i do not want. To me that is a huge part of why we are here, to have these opportunities to see where we are within ourselves and to choose what we want to feel and experience. I feel it is this internal growth, this self realization that expands us, source, the universes and all there is. This is a way to sift and sort what we like, how we want to feel and how to change what we think, feel and how we react. This is manifesting and creating our lives on purpose and these are enormous opportunities to not only decide what we like and do not like, but also to ‘practice’ how to interact and communicate with people.

How do you perceive conflict? Some people seem to like it, attract it, relish in it, get power from it. Most people fear it, avoid it and some even run from it. What do you believe is the ‘right’ thing to do about conflict? Is there such a thing as a ‘right ‘ way to handle it?

Since I do not really think anyone truly wants or likes conflict (even those who seem to relish it I believe have some other reason for that, mainly that something in them, anger or fear or lack of self worth, takes on a magnetic filed that says “want to fight? Fine, let’s fight! Bring it on!”) I think it is an interesting topic. I think that the way we ultimately deal with conflict of any kind says a lot about who we are. This is not a moral judgment or a right or wrong thing. This is about us really getting to know and understand our true selves. If we truly stand in our won space and own who we are, love and cherish who we are, we know we have nothing to fear and therefore, conflict is very different than how most of society perceives it.

However, on our own personal journey’s we can see how we are affected by conflict and how we choose to handle it, feel about it and resolve it, and this is a huge indicator to ourselves of where we are within ourselves. Being in a space of inner peace is what we all want and is our natural state. So then, how do we choose that state, and not fall in to judgment of ourselves and others, fear of others opinions and letting our minds run wild with “what if” or “they shouldn’t” scenarios?

Well, I know from my life that I never liked conflict and used to be afraid of aggressive, direct people and people who I perceived as “bully’s”. Over the years I have intentionally strengthened myself, and my self worth to be less and less intimidated by this type of energy and I have stepped up and deal with conflicts as they appeared in my life. There were times I wanted to run, literally and emotionally, away, and not deal with it. It was internally very painful. However, I found that every time I dealt with it and went through it instead of avoiding it, I grew, and that strength was worth every bit of discomfort. Then I was stronger and more confident the next time, I know it was not such a big deal as I was making it, and I began to find ways to actually re-frame the situation.

Re-framing is an internal way to quickly shift your perception and interpretation of the situation. Since we create our won realities and therefore we choose our thoughts and feelings, we can, in an instant, shift how we feel and therefore the energy over the whole circumstance shifts. Since it is all energy, this is how to really make changes that yo can feel and see. You will see people react differently to you and you can see conflicts completely dissolve in front of you. You can feel calm and happy in the middle of a so called “bad” situation, and you can let go of your attachment to any outcome or desire for external circumstances to be different than what they are.

Does this mean you are saying it is “OK” for someone to act a certain way? No, letting it go, changing your attitude or releasing your resistance does not have anything to do with condoning any action or person. Remember, nothing anyone else does has anything to do with you in reality. Everyone is operating in their own world and can only come from their own perspective. You can;t change anyone or anything else, but you can change how you feel and act or react. This is true power. Power over your own thoughts and emotions…this creates worlds.

I recently have encountered some situations that gave me a chance to see how I deal with conflict (again…a life long process really!). Having come through so much emotional conflict in my divorce, several key people in my life who are the “bully” type (who i tried for so long to please…) and other things in life, I am in the best place I have ever been inside of me. I no longer fear or am intimidated by direct people, in fact I appreciate them. Not ‘bully’s’, not people who are aggressive and try to force their ego’s and agenda’s on you., but people who know who they are and are willing to be honest and direct in their communication. I am more like this as well and I find many people do not like it, but it solves many issues that arise form being vague, avoiding discussing important things and other things that tend to arise with people who are too afraid to communicate honestly.

There is something very damaging when people hide and avoid issues that make them uncomfortable. In this way you never can resolve anything, or know where you or they stand. How can you and have potential for good open communication, growth and opportunity to connect when someone is not honest with you?

Magical things can happen when you step into perceived ‘conflict’….you will find out more about who you are and you will increase your power and make friends with people you never imagined. Your world grows, expands and you feel like you can handle anything, fear fades…so much is available to us when we are willing to deal with conflict and not run from it. Step up and trust yourself, you are safe and magnificent and you add tjo the beauty of the world when you do! Thank you!

Today is the day, tonight is the “Living the Spirit of Money: Enter the phase of integration” class…I am sooo excited! This is going to be so jammed packed with action!

I have so much running through me, so much I want to share, and yet…well, please join us tonight, you can sign up here: http://bethespiritofmoney.com/integration/

I am excited for many reasons, i will tell you a few, but mainly what I wanted to share with you today is what some of the people who have taken the Spirit of Money class had to say.

I am excited because I get turned on by empowering myself and others and seeing and feeling the changes that occur. I love to see people go from fear and anger, to joy and personal power. I love to see people take  a chance, be willing to step outside their norm and do what most people aren’t, to start creating their reality with power and purpose.

The Spirit of Money has inspired so much in me, my life, and the people who have been a part of this journey so far! I can’t describe what an amazing and delicious feeling it is to tune in to your own energy and power and then line up with the frequencies of money and love, joy and health…. Everything is energy and in this and all the Spirit of Money classes, group coaching, audio courses etc., we are all about taking you into your own energy system and fine tuning it till you can align with any energy you desire (money, love, friendship, jobs, travel, kids, health, self worth…), naturally, easily, joyfully!!

So here is some of what the class participants had to say, I hope you will become one of the money empowered group too!! (Also see below, you still have time to get this class free!)

~”Amy & Nan -  Thank you so much for the incredible Spirit of Money teleclass.  I learned soooo much!!  I believe it has changed by life.  I must share with you some results I’ve experienced in my business since beginning the class.  I am a real estate investor and I sell my homes on a Lease Purchase Basis.  I had been really struggling with my business, but since beginning the class I filled 2 of my properties with great tenant buyers, sold a property for a profit of 35K and getting ready to close on another sale for a profit for of 25K.  I’d say the spirit is flowing!!  Thank you both sooo much!!”

“Hello Nan and Amy,  I’m so very excited!!!!
From the last class I cannot remember which of you told us to ask for $5.00 and let it come. Well it happened…..I won five dollars in the lottery!
wow and now I will buy my fish and bowl with it! 
thanks so much! Beverly V. Monroe”

“Hi Nan
I loved the connection you did with the spirit of money session 7, I think I got or I’m getting shifted now ,(another, and another one, and here comes another real big one,,,i’m joking). Yesterday after listening to session 7 I felt to continue meditate
before going to bed. so I was doing this kind of deep breathing, asking my chakras to open up, it was quite a long the whole process, and then I felt bizarrely happy, like i know i did it, I’m in it, I just know it. It feel like “I trust” about it all . thank you again,,, you and Amy. I will join you all on july 15 for Living the Spirit of Money class…”beinthespiritofmoney”…I’m sooo grateful. limor”

“Hi Nan,
Thank you for the wonderful, powerful clearing you shared with us last night. It created a hugh shift in me. In the past whenever I thought about having money and prosperity I used to get a tight uncomfortable feeling in my body. After doing the clearing last night, I thought about being prosperous and having money and I felt truely excited and had a wonderful positive feeling in my body. This is amazing and so much fun! Thank you again for the wonderful words and energy that are enabling me to align with who I truely am. I just downloaded the replay of the call, so I will listen to it again and again and really open myself up to being who I truly am.
Love & Gratitude
Monica”

“I think I am already in the flow.  I am just increasing capacity at the moment.
The mindset is wonderful.  My wife and I are buying a new bed and she
wants one that is three times as expensive as one almost like it.  My
initial reaction was that she was out of her mind, then I thought
about where my flow level was so I let go.  I found out yesterday I am
getting an (unexpected) $5-$6 thousand bonus (before taxes, depending
on the stock price on 6-30) at work.  So, flow on.
S. T.”

That’s just a few, so why not join us?  http://bethespiritofmoney.com/integration/

Our Mission is to: Show you how to live in the flow with Money as your ally, day to day. Integrate a whole new positive, empowering co-creative living experience and relationship with The Spirit of Money. and enjoy life as you were meant to!

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